When I saw this one guy come into the swing dance I looked away and said under my breath oh god. And then when I looked over he looked mad?

[Anonymous]

I was wondering why he looked mad. No rude comments please.

Note: If your not going to be kind when commenting please don’t comment at all.

[Oliverlogan263]

It's hard to say for sure why he looked mad, but here are a few possibilities:

- He might have overheard you saying "oh god" under your breath when you saw him come in. Even if you didn't mean for him to hear, that could come across as insulting and upset him.

- Maybe in the past there has been some awkward interaction or tension between you two that led him to think you don't like him. So seeing your reaction reinforced that idea.

- Possibly he's self-conscious about swing dancing and worries others will judge him. So your reaction could have played into an insecurity.

- Or it may not even be about you personally - he could just be dealing with stuff in his own life and was already in a frustrated mood.

I wouldn't assume it's necessarily something you did wrong. But next time you see him, a polite smile and nod might help take the edge off in case he did notice your initial reaction. Try not to overthink it too much - could just be a misunderstanding! Stay positive.

[Taniisokay]

He probably hear your "oh god" thinking that he isn't welcome. I would ask what you mean by your "oh god" if I has in his place.

[Peridot25]

We need more details than this. Why did you say, “Oh, God,” when you saw him?

[spartan55]

He probably didn't even hear you.