Are there men who choose not to engage in hookup-culture?

[Anonymous]

Are there men out there who are attractive enough to be hooking up but choose not to because they want a relationship? Men that value intimacy and don’t just give out to anyone who looks their way?

And not because they have had a hoe phase / slept around and got tired of it, but because they have always had strong values and stuck to them despite of social pressures.

[236color]

Okay, first of all I'm not sure "hook up culture" is even a thing. In the late 60s and 70s it was called "free love". The truth is, young people have very high sex drives, especially young men and people have always had sex.
The question seems to be "can I find a man that doesn't want to have sex with me?" Well maybe, but chances are you don't want him. If you are heterosexual, more likely what you want is a man YOU want to have sex with and all the men you don't want to magically disappear.
On the other hand you may be in the grips of one of many religions truly twisted ideas about sexually, that most of it's followers can't live up to. Or lastly you don't want a man at all.
If you do find a man that will wait until whatever goalpost you want him to pass before you have sex with him, it isn't going to be a once for every child thing. Marriages that survive have sex regularly or they are sad, bitter, resentful things. Have a serious look at what it is you want.

[Summeroflove]

There are men who do but many people are opportunists as well as so many people want their cake and eat it too including a lot of women. A lot of people want to fuck around but also want to be intimate with someone whose the ideal partner. For men a woman with strong morals, whose maybe a virgin, etc But sleeps with whores. Why would a woman virgin by choice want that? The flip side is women who sleep with useless men for fun but end up wanting a man whose strong, a provider, and again strong morals. Why would he want that?

There is also people who are just not attractive inside or out…. And they become jealous and angry. But if they had the opportunity to have sex they would.

But yes there are people who have a strong moral code. Who don’t live that lifestyle.

[YourExLover69]

I don't go for hook up culture. Infact never did that. I look for a stronger relationship before having sex. Nowadays I'm single and still I wait and prefer relationship first.

[NathanDavis]

I've never done hook-ups

not thinking about it either

[HawkPerception]

Of course there are. The majority of guys I know do not engage in hookup culture.

[ProbablyClueless]

Sure. I'm one of those guys.

I basically realized that hook up culture wasn't worth the effort and I'm way happier for it.

[Anonymous]

I don't have the energy nor the desire to pursue anyone I don't want a long term relationship with.

[jahaims]

Hook up culture grosses me out. A bunch of people with no self respect trying to cope with feelings they don't understand.

[masterSir]

Yes, we are usually overlooked by women. because we aren't seen as fun or exciting. we are all friend zoned so women can go be sluts for guys that hookup. then we don't want you.

[Anonymous]

That's true I get lots of attention from attractive girls but don't hook up with all of them just the ones I connect with have a thing for.

[Ariesman81]

Yeah... we're called incels.

[LiamS95]

I don't do random hookups.

[HelpfulWoman]

duh l;./

[Alex-Snow]

I'm sure there are.