Can someone please help me out here?

[Anonymous]

Okay soo after my boyfriends baseball practice he looked at a girls butt for about three seconds right? He texted me later on and said “I need to get something off my chest” and then he told me but like too be honest I don't know I got upset and then tried looking at it in a positive way because he told me and soo I thought at least he’s being honest. I don’t know how to react cause like I know it’s just for something tiny but I don't know I guess I’m just like insecure though so that may be a reason I feel like this but I don't know. Help me out girliess🙏

[SueShe]

Looking at a person, regardless of the gender for a half a second to assess him or her and to see whether he knows this person or whether that person may represent a threat is fine and is not reason to worry.

Staring at a woman for 3 full seconds is way beyond a regular assessment. This is gawking and staring and may be reason for concern.

His strategy is simple. Warning you for his behavior so that you don't start assuming things. Mission accomplished and you now believe he is honest. Next time you are simply going to ignore that fact and instead of just gawking for 3 seconds at one single girl, it is going to be an intensive stare for 10 seconds at a number of girls. And that is how problems arise...

[HelpfulWoman]

what?
he has working eyes and a working system to like an ass? what the fuck in insecure retard is this?

[Anonymous]

No big deal. He didn’t do anything about it and he told you right after. You did the right thing.

[Anonymous]

Really?

It's meaningless.