Can someone help me out please?

[Anonymous]

I see that this guy may like me but we act so weirdly around each other. We don’t talk to each either. Last week, twice he got me staring at him but I got so nervous that I looked away. I think he thought I was avoiding eye contact because the second time he can over put his head back like he was sad. There were other times that he would look over at me too. Most of the time he looks when I’m not looking. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I’m so scared to let him in because he could be my first boyfriend. I’m just too scared to talk to him. No other guy makes me as nervous as this guy. I don’t want him to think I hate/ don’t like him when I do. My feelings are getting stronger and stronger each day and it’s getting to me. by the way, I see him around church today 😭.

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I made a mistake at the end. I meant to say, by the way, I didn't see him around church yesterday 😭**

[flashrex]

What makes you nervous around him? I think the best way to get to him is by just breaking the ice. Someone needs to talk first, but if you're both too scared to do it, then no one will for a while or even longer. So just do it now and get it over with I say.

[Asker]

Well, it's a crowded area and people are always in your business. But what makes me nervous is saying something stupid and not knowing what to say because I'm not comfortable around him.

[flashrex]

I see now. I see one of two options you can do: The first one is to try to get somewhere secluded with him/agree to meet with him somewhere after wherever you go or two is to get comfortable talking to him in the crowded area. You can do the second one by having more confidence which you can build by practicing talking in a mirror or acquiring a certain mindset. You can always look up how to be more confident on Google if those don't help.

[Asker]

1. Is not going to work but thanks for the advice.
2. I can try that one. Hopefully, he comes on Sunday though.
His mom did hug me today which was nice.

[Anonymous]

Go make a move on him.

[Asker]

I want to but I'm kind of the shy type and I don't know what to say without making a fool out of myself.

[Opinion Owner]

Keep it simple and just say hi, and introduce yourself. Its not that hard.

[Asker]

Yeah, I guess. I'll try if he comes on Sunday.

[Opinion Owner]

Good luck.

[Asker]

Thank you 😊

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome.