What does it mean if a guy lets me drive his sports car then takes me out to lunch and pays then takes me drifting. Should I read anything into this?

[Anonymous]

We have been on the line between friends and more then friends for like 2 years now and he has told me a couple time that I’m his only girl “friend” I don't know sometimes he flirts and he seems like he like me but then other times it’s just business. Should I read anything into the fact that he called me up and said he is selling his car but he wanted me to drive it first? Then proceeded to take a bunch of videos of me driving his car for memories. Toke me out to lunch and paid for me and then took me drifting?

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Update guys: I just finally did it and called this man up and asked him are we just friends or something more? He replied with “ your the only girl I can be friends with, you like one of the bros to me, we have been such good friends for 6 years I feel like I can tell you everything. I’ll let you know if something changes” lol

[HollyK21]

Oh my gosh!! I feel like I remember talking to you like a little over a year ago and we were in communication for quite a while before I took a break from this site. Are you the one who this guy was a coworker, he’d take you to really nice dinners and whatnot but kept putting that friendship boundary, sending you memes and whatnot, and you were trying to step back from the friendship. Correct-ish?

[Asker]

Sorry no! I know this guy cuz he used to be friends with my brother

[HollyK21]

No worries! Your stories sound sooo similar, I wish you two could speak and compare notes lol anyway, unless you feel confident to ask how he feels about you then only time will tell what his intentions really are. It kinda sounds like he had a cool car that he wanted to enjoy it with his friend, and I’m sure the word friend can sting, but if he insists on keeping that boundary in place it’s best to abide by it and not look more deeply into his actions. Be sure that this friendship isn’t simultaneously you being led on or given false hope, because in the end that sort of dynamic just isn’t worth it for you. Far too hurtful.

[HollyK21]

Per your update — wow! I hope you decide to either distance yourself or park him VERY specifically and clearly in the friendzone. No more blurred lines.

[Asker]

Yup he is so gone

[alice55]

Nothing he could be just wanting to have sex with men we can never know for sure sadly

[fish5505_87]

He likes you in some capacity, might just be sexual, what do you mean when you say you were more than friends for two years? If it's what I am thinking, you know what he wants.

[WhitneySnow]

It probably means he likes you. Tell him how you feel. But don’t have sex with him right away. He could be doing this just for sex.

[WhitneySnow]

Sorry. Guess he really does just want to be friends. Don’t do the guy thing and dump him as a friend for friendzoning you.

[Asker]

I agree I’m cutting him off completely. He flirts way too much for me to stay friends with him.

[WhitneySnow]

Not a bad idea. He probably likes the ego boost. Friends shouldn’t flirt with you. He can’t have it both ways.

[egarcia1360]

Girl you just went on a date and didn't notice lol

[Cormac995]

@egarcia1360 Yep, this guy's right he charmed you into going on a date without you even realizing it.

[Wise4myage]

Sounds like he really trust you.

[appetitefordominance]

He likes you. End of story