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[Bunnynurse03]

Hi, I’m confused, I have male individual I’ve known for few years now. He doesn’t have much work on at the moment. I know of a renovation job that I offered to him with good payment, he said was interested in… I sent him info of it. He mentioned few tasks wasn’t confident with I respected that. Pretty much I got ghosted of the job? Have not heard from him.. Was it the job or me?

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to pinpoint the exact reason for his ghosting, but it's likely a combination of factors related to the job itself rather than solely you; his expressed lack of confidence in certain tasks suggests he may have felt overwhelmed or unprepared, leading to avoidance rather than direct communication. While your offer was generous, the practical realities of the work, coupled with potential personal anxieties about his current situation, could have contributed to his decision to withdraw

[Bunnynurse03]

Thankyou 😊

[SteveSmith1985]

Sorry did he accept the job then ghost you?

[SteveSmith1985]

You know what. I can still answer this. It wasn't you, it was the job.

It could have been something about the job and being ashamed/afraid to face you (depending on what happened exactly). Still, I'm confident it was the job. Not you.

[Bunnynurse03]

Hi Steve, he has his main trade, yes I did ask if he could do things that were outside his trade of work. I’m disappointed though that he didn’t even come to do what he is qualified to do. Also when I asked if it were me only the fact we have also been intimate as well.

[SteveSmith1985]

Oh damn! I'm so sorry, I wasn't thinking it was that kind of situation at all. So, did he skip out on a job he had agreed to do?

(do you want to DM, for convenience sake? we can totally keep going back and forth here if you prefer)

[Bunnynurse03]

Many thanks I sent you a DM