For guys that say ”i protect my girlfriend/wife” who are u protecting her from?

[chocolatetwopointo]

[Finchie40]

Her man will Protect her from a lot of things if she trusts and loves and respects him , He will protect her from Danger and harm , he will protect her from making selfish decisions and choices that could cause havoc in his or her life , because most females’ are sadly vulnerable and clueless when it comes to certain things, it’s been this way for a lot of years even Eve was vulnerable and clueless so a man’s role in the relationship is to lead her and guide her to keep her safe a female’s role is to be submissive to him and to look up to him and care for him most females’ are natural care takers and men are providers and protectors and leaders a man will only provide and protect a girl that loves and cherishes him and is submissive to him , if she isn’t submissive to him then he More than likely will move on from her and find a girl that is unless he is a simp and allows her to take lead and he acts like she is his Mother. A masculine man will be a King and make her his Queen.

[chocolatetwopointo]

like what dangers? so he’d control her? like what things r women clueless ab? thats a relationship from the 1800s its 2025. why would she need to act like his mother?

[Finchie40]

Harm from others’ or making sure she feels safe by doing things for her to take some weight off of her shoulders without her having to ask him to do so , some examples are making sure her car is maintained and safe to drive , making sure things are fixed around the house so she doesn’t have to worry about it. And most importantly not controlling her whatsoever , a loving man is not going to control her , he is going to accept her and treat her the same way he wants to be treated in return, if they are wise they will both set boundaries together so they are both on the same page with things , that isn’t control , that’s respect for each other and the relationship. Most females’ do not want to be with a guy that she feels she has to take care of like a child
, she doesn’t want to be his mother , she wants a guy that she can depend on that takes the lead in the relationship by making her feel safe and making her feel protected , if she is with a guy that plays video games all day and doesn’t help around the house , that doesn’t clean up after himself , or fix things that need fixed , and expects her to do everything,, she is more than likely going to be turned off and feel like she is in a relationship all by herself , and she might eventually run to another guy that she feels is masculine and and more put together , I been the other guy a handful of times and when I found out these girls’ were cheating on their partners’ with me , and I asked them why they did so? They all pretty
Much said the same thing , she doesn’t feel like she has a partner , she feels she is with a child that needs Mommy to take care of him. That is mean and rude to her and ignores her when she tries to talk to him. If she doesn’t feel heard by her partner , she is more than likely going to fall out of love with him , Unless she is the type of girl that likes being in complete control , but that’s a rare thing. Not saying that doesn’t happen but it’s rare , Most females’ want a

[Finchie40]

Masculine guy , she is drawn to his masculine energy and confidence , I only date girls that look up to me and feel safe and protected by me , that love being submissive to me

[chocolatetwopointo]

so why would u want to take care of the woman? most women js want a partner, not a babysitter. not many women would feel safe or protected around u. ew wtf. dont u want an equal partner?

[Finchie40]

She is a partner he wouldn’t be with her if she wasn’t

[chocolatetwopointo]

what?

[Finchie40]

You will have to experience this on your own for you to completely understand what i am saying , you are still young and have a whole life ahead of you and eventually you will understand ,

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no, im not gna become some submissive wife for a man

[Finchie40]

You aren’t going to stay loyal and faithful to him , you are going to cheat on him and string him along as a convenience? If that’s the case you are better off just staying single and living your selfish lifestyle instead of messing with someone’s heart. Being submissive to a man just means you value him and cherish him the same way you want him to cherish and value you , the only time the both of you should be dominate and submissive to each other is on the bedroom but outside the bedroom you both should have respect for each other and trust each other and follow the boundaries that you both set into place together if you want your relationship to survive and for love to continue to grow between you both , if you can’t do that for your man, don’t expect him to do that for you, it needs to go both ways for any relationship to last and survive. Removing selfishness for each other is key to having a long lasting loving relationship, if you can’t remove selfishness , then do not get into a relationship period , you will be wasting your time and his has well

[chocolatetwopointo]

no? do yk what submissive means?
im staying single and selfish for other reasons than loyalty. submissive means ur basically taking orders from somebody. if i ever had a relationship it’d be 50/50 simple.

[Lliam]

Any threat. I'd sacrifice my life for my wife. It's my duty to keep her safe.

It could be something simple. One time there was a snow storm when she was at work and her car got snowed in. She was alone and stranded at night. I drove up the mountain and picked her up, then drove her to work the next day and dug her car out so that she could get back home after work.

But she has done things for me, too. One night when she was already asleep and I was getting ready for bed around 2:00 am, my nose started bleeding like a faucet for no reason and wouldn't stop. After a couple hours, woke her up and she drove me to the emergency room.

There have been lots times when we have bailed each other out of dire circumstances, including through sickness or injury.

That's what couples do. They are always there for each other and care for each other when needed.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why would u sacrifice ur life?

thats js helping not protecting.

[Sevenpointfive]

i think that's called a situationship?

[chocolatetwopointo]

what?

[Sevenpointfive]

girlfriend vs wife debate. i see one being more important. but some guys are heroes no matter if it was a a stranger or someone that they knew.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why should the status matter?

[Sevenpointfive]

it doesn't matter. what matters is the relationship that you have with that person.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok and? what does this have to do with my question?

[fantasticass]

Thank you for being a fantastic and loving husband. You are correct, it's like you are " attached at the hip" it's the best feeling ❤️👍

[Sevenpointfive]

@chocolatetwopointo the answer is whatever life throws at her

[WhitneySnow]

They’re protecting her from life and bad things that could happen to her. And other guys, I guess.

I get what you’re saying and I agree with you. But some of these guys, their heart’s in the right place.

[chocolatetwopointo]

its so stupid tho? they’re js trying to seem nice, all of these things, she could do by herself

[WhitneySnow]

Yeah you’ve got a point. I guess a lot of them are just being fake nice and patronizing.

[fantasticass]

He's protecting her from men, women, evil people, and bad vibes. He always makes sure she has everything she needs to keep him happy. 🇨🇦❤️

[chocolatetwopointo]

can't she do that herself?

[fantasticass]

Sure, we can protect ourselves. But, that's not the point. It's a man's responsibility to do that

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no its not. we’re not helpless kids.

[fantasticass]

You're answer is a disgrace. Is that what you're mind tells you? Grow up and deal with reality, stop your bullshit games with people 😡

[chocolatetwopointo]

what?

[Apophus]

Other men... women are vulnerable both mentally and physically. As they should be... Women generally want to see the best in people which is why you ll believe most sob stories not because your stupid but because you want it to be true that peoplev are nurturing and caring as u are and your right other women are... it's your job and it doesn't take much for man to overpower a woman... No matter how strong you think you are your still s match for the wimpiest of men. So if a man can't smooze what he wants out of you with his words he could just take it t by force. It's dangerous out there for women.

[chocolatetwopointo]

wdym as they should be? u want women to be in danger?
i dont believe most sob stories tho? im not nurturing at all, i know self defense, i could probably take down a skinny man if he tried to attack me🤷‍♀️ better than nothing. thats why i dont go out a lot, esp at night.

[lil_will_12]

Anything that would cause her danger, criminals, rapists, creeps. And yes, men make up the vast majority of those titles unfortunately. It makes me wonder why, I genuinely think it should be studied🤔 we could pinpoint the reason why and try to fix it perhaps😌

I've never said the quote bc A: i dont got a girlfriend or wife, and B: if i ever have one i dont think she’d need protecting 🤷‍♂️ but i would help her when she needs it and whatnot.

[chocolatetwopointo]

y'all always say its not all men tho?

[236color]

Whatever threatens her. Violence, hunger, disappointment, weather, poverty, asshole kids on the internet bullying her, her parents if need be, my parents if necessary. Sometimes her own insecurities. If it threatens her in anyway, I'll fight it to the death.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why can't she do that on her own?

[236color]

She can, that's not the point. The male version of the nurture instict is the protection Instict.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok and? if she can do it on her own she doesn't need u

[236color]

So what are you trying for here? I'm an unnecessary Neanderthal that should crawl under a rock. You're convinced men are useless? Hey, I love my wife, she may not need my protection, in fact most of the time she doesn't, but like it or not she's got it. I don't protect her because she's weak, I protect her because she's important.

[chocolatetwopointo]

im js asking, whats the point? nah im js saying y'all should mind ur own businesses. no u protect her bc she's weak, she wouldn't be weak if she did that herself.

[236color]

You really seem to misunderstand intimate connections. No she doesn't often need protection and so far always could protect herself, but we are not separate, we are together. She feels responsible for me also. We're not just roommates. It's not "her business and my business" it's OUR business.

[DJB72]

It's not a "who" it's a "what".

My wife's passing is being investigated as a possible suicide. My job as her Husband was to protect her. That includes leading her and our son in a way that she had peace in the direction we were going in.

I'm not convinced it was suicide, but if it was, I failed her.

[chocolatetwopointo]

if she wants to kill herself, who r u to stop her? must’ve had good reasons, no?

[DJB72]

Congratulations. That's officially the most insensitive reply I've had.

I survived four suicide attempts in my 20s. As a result I met my wife and my son exists.

There are no "good" reasons for suicide. Zero. None. Fuck all.

Suicide rips the heart of everyone who loves you to shreds. Children who lose a parent to suicide are over 20 times more likely than average to end their own lives - often as teenagers.

Nobody knows what tomorrow can bring that changes any circumstances from negative to positive. Nobody has the right to take away a child's mother. A daughter. A sister. A spouse. A friend.

THERE IS NO GOOD REASON FOR SUICIDE

[chocolatetwopointo]

womp womp thats life. yes there r? if somebody wants to kill themselves, let them. they should be happy. either u kys or deal with it. ur choice.

[DJB72]

You should get a job as a school counsellor. Deal with grieving parents.

Preferably a few Gen-X in person.

[chocolatetwopointo]

no, id say ”suck it up and go on with ur life”

[DJB72]

That's because you're a child

[chocolatetwopointo]

nah i js understand how life works

[DJB72]

If you're actually 16 you're in for a very unpleasant surprise in about 3 years

[chocolatetwopointo]

and that is?

[DJB72]

I'll let life surprise you

[chocolatetwopointo]

ah so nothing? got it

[chocolatetwopointo]

men trying to manipulate a young woman caught in 4K

[DJB72]

You're 16?

By your age I'd buried my younger brother from a road accident, my favourite aunt killed in a fire and my grandfather after a battle with cancer.

What makes you so sure someone who commits suicide is happy? What was your near death experience that gives you that insight?

[chocolatetwopointo]

sorry that happened to u. but see, ur fine now, u got over it.
when did i say somebody who commits suicide is happy? obvi they’re sad and then kill themselves TO BE happy.
this is like common sense hun.

[DJB72]

You think I'm "fine"? You should read the rest of my answers - not just this one.

I cry every day. My son - aged 6 - asks what happened to mummy. He wants to build a time machine to fetch her.

But I ask again: what makes you think someone who commits suicide finds happiness?

You don't "get over" death of any type. You learn to function around the pain.

My brother died 40 years ago and there's not a day gone by I haven't wished he was still here. My wife will be gone six months to the day on my birthday in two weeks. I'm not fine. I'm tough, but I'm not fine.

Seriously, I pray you never get tough like I've had to. I wish you a long and happy life.

[chocolatetwopointo]

no offense, but then id recomend therapy. grief shouldn't normally last this long.
i answered that question in my last reply.
get over and function around it is basically the same.
therapy is recomended.
thanks but i won't deny it and ill js go to therapy.

[DJB72]

You've missed something. It's six months since my wife died next week. That's my present grief.

[chocolatetwopointo]

sorry for that, but still, id recommend therapy

[DJB72]

No offense taken. None intended either.

[chocolatetwopointo]

r u like done now? or u got smth else to say?

[DJB72]

What do you expect? If you're actually 16 then frankly this kind of discussion is clearly beyond you. Something I wouldn't have said but for your last response.

As you live you will learn. Life can be incredibly rewarding. It can also be devastating. I loved a lady longer than you have lived. A Love that is a decision. A Love that is sacrificial. Something you can't yet imagine. And a loss you can't comprehend, no matter what you've been through so far.

Love and Loss are two sides of one coin. Joy and Pain.

And there are things no amount of therapy can do anything about. I hope you have less pain in your life than I have.

For reference things I've been through: the deaths of my closest family - brother, aunt before my teens, father before I was 30. Wife before I was 53 - 6 months ago.
Chronic illness - I'm diabetic. I'm an amputee having lost my leg in 2020. The same year I died of Covid, only surviving after four hours CPR from the most incredible ICU team who were prepared to defy the WHO instructions when I flatlined.

Therapy alone does nothing but throw layers over pain. I should know. I trained as a trauma therapist and life coach. It's not something I do any more.

Keep going the way you are. You'll learn why my generation's motto is FAFO.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah I don't know, u like to talk.
therapy will help tho, you’ll get over it faster and healthier.
right right right…

[DJB72]

I share my experience of life. I wouldn't wish the tragedies I've lived through on most people. There's always exceptions, and no - you're not one of them.

If you're really a 16 year old girl like your profile says then I pray you find a guy who will love you the way you deserve to be loved, and that when you do find him you are able to receive it.

I pray you have many years before you encounter something you can't just "suck up and go on with your life".

I hope you're not one of those broken young women with no relationship with your father, although the way you're talking to a guy of almost 53 suggests otherwise.

I hope your level of cynicism wasn't caused by childhood SA and the scum getting away with it.

Most of all, I hope you're not the 16 year old girl I spent half today around with her mum because her dad died in January and they only found his body yesterday.

Actually, most of all I hope you don't know her. "Suck it up" isn't how you help anyone who just lost a parent. Or a sibling. Or a spouse. Or anyone they loved. And I truly hope it's many years before you go through that level of loss.

Go in Peace 🕊️

[chocolatetwopointo]

thats why i won't get married lmao. hopefully won't find someone. dont really wanna end up like u. ah ok so when a woman is scared of men she doesn't have a father, totally makes sense. retards. bro i dont give a fuck, suck it up and go on with ur life u weak mf.

[DJB72]

You seem to think I'm weak because I'm prepared to be open about my experiences.

I promise you, from your responses there is zero chance you'll end up with 10% of the strength I have by my age.

Statistically most 16 year olds who talk like you are from homes where there's either no father or an abusive one. Your comments that you think make you sound strong actually scream how weak and scared you are - as does resorting to referring to me as "mf".

Despite it all, I truly pray you find the peace you're clearly desperate for.

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope, i dont really care.
i have a father and he's not abusive. yh bc ur weak asf. i alr have peace

[molonski2]

They are not protecting her from anything frankly. People who say things like this only seek pure control and affirmation.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so you’ve never said it?

[molonski2]

Maybe , but not that I can recall...

[chocolatetwopointo]

mhmm

[purplepoppy]

A real man doesn't put her in danger in the first place. These type of guts are just thugs looking for an excuse to throw their weight around.

[purplepoppy]

Then I mustn't hate you because I don't consider you a man. And if anyone wishes evidence of this I suggest they read your past answers.

[Lokiion]

Ok but what if she puts herself in danger?

[chocolatetwopointo]

if she puts herself in danger, why is he with her? how is it his problem then?

[Lokiion]

I never said he was with her though or that it was his problem

[chocolatetwopointo]

so whats the problem?

[Lokiion]

The 'problem' was poppy's assumption that the guy is always the issue. So I came up with a hypothetical to rebuttal what she was saying it's not that hard to follow.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and who says im agreeing with her? i js asked a simple follow up question

[purplepoppy]

I'm not a child that needs protecting from the boogeyman. I'm capable of going about life without putting myself in danger. The World isn't out to get me, I won't be raped the moment I step outside without a man on my arm. 99% of men are not a threat and those that are are easily avoided.

[Lokiion]

Not once did I say you agreed with her

[chocolatetwopointo]

so dont make it seem like i am.

[Lokiion]

This has nothing to do with the hypothetical. Nobody called you a child nor did anyone say the world is out to get you.

[Lokiion]

How tf am I 'making it seem' like anything? Please stay in school and improve your comprehension skills.

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao stay mad ig so pressed for nothing

[Lokiion]

No one's mad but try better with the rage bait next time, please ❤

[chocolatetwopointo]

you are tho lmao

[Lokiion]

ok lol I am very mad I guess

[chocolatetwopointo]

obviously

[Lokiion]

clearly 😝

[Lokiion]

We mad

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes, and ur very zesty

[Lokiion]

we are very zesty obviously periodT

[chocolatetwopointo]

thank you, i try

[Lokiion]

You're welcome, A+ for effort.

Anyways this is fun let's keep this going

[chocolatetwopointo]

u being gay? i mean sure🤷‍♀️

[Lokiion]

I'm a pretty happy person although I thought WE were more so lesbians

[chocolatetwopointo]

good 4 u, so ur a lesbian but ur a man?

[Lokiion]

Yes I like women

[chocolatetwopointo]

hard to believe

[Lokiion]

It's hard to believe you like anyone either but miracles happen 🤷‍♂️

[chocolatetwopointo]

who said i like anyone?

[Lokiion]

So you don't like yourself? It must be exhausting being you everyday.

[chocolatetwopointo]

bro what?

[Lokiion]

You said you don’t like anyone so you don’t like yourself 🤦‍♂️

[chocolatetwopointo]

smartest American award goes to you!🏆🙌

[Lokiion]

Since I mean self love is kinda hard to do when you don’t like anyone

[chocolatetwopointo]

u sound like my 10 yr old brother

[Lokiion]

And you sound like his equally annoying sister anyway at this point might as well get the replies to 50 for the 50 states of America

[Lokiion]

I appreciate the recognition but can I have the trophy shipped to me I would really appreciate it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ur the kind to expect awards for js being there

[Lokiion]

You just gave me one for typing so I guess you're the type of person to just hand them out

[chocolatetwopointo]

it was sarcasm…

[Lokiion]

No wait fr? it was? I couldn't tell

[chocolatetwopointo]

yh obviously

[Lokiion]

Anyway I need to start taking tips from you cause the replies from you and other people are pretty amusing

[chocolatetwopointo]

like what?

[Lokiion]

ragebaiting I guess is the best way to describe it seeing how so many people are upset but it's not really even ragebait since a lot of what you're saying makes sense and is valid it's mainly just finding contradictions.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay

[Lokiion]

mhm 👍

[chocolatetwopointo]

r u done?

[Lokiion]

No I said I wanted to get to 50

[chocolatetwopointo]

50 what?

[Lokiion]

50 replies

[chocolatetwopointo]

thats stupid

[Lokiion]

I mean yeah it’s stupid but you still got it to 50 replies

[Staximus]

Protecting her from bad things and bad people, physical and mental harm, financial ruin, whatever. Everything I can. A man is supposed to do what he can when people cannot protect themselves, especially when it's his children, girlfriend or wife, family, etc

[chocolatetwopointo]

like what things?

[Staximus]

Who are you? The Grand Inquisitor? All bad things, 2.0

[chocolatetwopointo]

like what bad things?

[Staximus]

Okay I am now changing your name to the Grand Inquisitor. I said it in my answer. Physical and mental harm, financial ruin, unnecessary stress, violence, con artists, sickness, shady people, getting stranded, whatever. Just all bad things that I can possibly protect somebody from, Turkey2000

[chocolatetwopointo]

can't she do that herself?

[Staximus]

Everybody can't do everything

[chocolatetwopointo]

unless she's disabled i dont see why not

[Staximus]

We'll have our strengths and weaknesses and areas of expertise. For example, everybody's not an auto mechanic and can't tell if the mechanic is trying to rip them off.

[Staximus]

Like if you're walking down the street and get attacked by a big giant fat bastard, are you going to be able to fight them off? Probably not, that's where people like me step in and fuck them up

[chocolatetwopointo]

when u say ”mechanic” do u mean the harmful threaths? part of it is a man, a woman can always tell when a man wants to do smth bad, so dont worry ab that.
there would probably be people around, and i know self defense, i think id be fine. nobody js attacks somebody for no reason.

[Staximus]

You seem to be very unaware and ignorant of the dangers that exist in the real world.

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao okay so explain it to me.

[Staximus]

When I was talking about the auto mechanic I was actually talking about an auto mechanic. You are not living in the real world yet

[chocolatetwopointo]

well im not talking about the auto mechanic, i said mechanic not auto

[Staximus]

I said "We'll have our strengths and weaknesses and areas of expertise. For example, everybody's not an auto mechanic and can't tell if the mechanic is trying to rip them off" your response was "when u say ”mechanic” do u mean the harmful threaths? part of it is a man, a woman can always tell when a man wants to do smth bad, so dont worry ab that.
there would probably be people around, and i know self defense, i think id be fine. nobody js attacks somebody for no reason." A mechanic is the person who fixes your car. What world are you living in?

[chocolatetwopointo]

omfg🤦‍♀️ ur obviously too unintelligent to understand, gn

[OlderAndWiser]

"Protection" is not just protection from another person. I try to protect my wife from uncertainty, lack of stability, want and need, unkindness, sadness, cold or wet weather, and all the other vagaries of life.

[chocolatetwopointo]

can't she do that herself?

[OlderAndWiser]

Most of us are capable of living our lives alone and taking care of ourselves. You should NEVER get into a relationship because you NEED someone else to take care of you.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so whats the point of being protective if she can do it on her own?

[OlderAndWiser]

When you love someone and you are committed to being together forever (like being married,) the comfort and happiness of your partner will be just as important to you as your own comfort and happiness. It's not what you must do; it's what you want to do

[chocolatetwopointo]

question still stands

[OlderAndWiser]

What's the point of being in a relationship at all?

[chocolatetwopointo]

dont ask me, i dont want one

[OlderAndWiser]

My answer about protecting my wife may not satisfy your need for a logical explanation, but. . . "why" people do things in relationships is most often motivated by feelings and emotions, rather than logic and intellect. If you are a high IQ person (which I suspect,} you may not want to accept this as a valid response, but if you ever experience a satisfying romantic relationship, you will then see what I am telling you.

[chocolatetwopointo]

people do other stufg motivated by feelings and emotions and they control them

[OlderAndWiser]

Emotions don't always need to be controlled. Are you afraid of that side of yourself?

[chocolatetwopointo]

what?

[OlderAndWiser]

Uncomfortable with my question!

[chocolatetwopointo]

no? i js dont understand what u mean?

[OlderAndWiser]

Some high IQ people are very comfortable discussing intellectual matters but uncomfortable talking about their beings. Are you in that group?

[chocolatetwopointo]

as i said, i dont understand the fucking question? what do u not understand about my response?

[glennos89]

I protect from other dudes that have wrong intentions and from other woman if necessary. I will also try to protect you from wild animals if needed but depending on the type of wildlife. If we come across a tiger we will probably die both 😂

[chocolatetwopointo]

you’ll both die if u get attacked by an animal.

[glennos89]

Depends on which animal ofcourse. I think I can handle a squirrel 🐿️

[chocolatetwopointo]

so could a woman lol

[glennos89]

Hahaha what about spiders and other insects?

[chocolatetwopointo]

everyone could handle that?

[glennos89]

What about a 6'4ft guy trying to rape you? Who is going to help then?

You definitely need another man is these moments

[chocolatetwopointo]

ill probably be in public so somebody there probably. yeah nah, id rather have 2 women, men r sm drama

[IslaTheWitch]

my friends claim they protect me from myself :D

cheeky bastards... :D

[chocolatetwopointo]

what?

[IslaTheWitch]

men think they always know better... but they don't... but don't tell them :D

[Anonymous]

I can’t think of anyone saying that they protect them…. You just promise to be with them in case they go through a tough time and maybe if its protection it’s from the challenges of life…i know its not possible but yes everyone tries…. Like our parents try to protect us from many things happening in the world

[chocolatetwopointo]

many men do..

[Opinion Owner]

Well what i know is they say about taking care of them but protecting could generally mean like our parents say that they protect us

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah i read that, but thats when we’re kids not now when we’re adults

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but still they have that protective feeling for us…. Similar way couples have for each other

[chocolatetwopointo]

not really tho..

[Opinion Owner]

Ok…..

[chocolatetwopointo]

yupp

[NathanDavis]

bad hombres, natural disasters... dangerous shit

and from time to time... from the cutest little and not aggressive at all, spiders... lol

[chocolatetwopointo]

dont y'all always say its not all men? and what would u do against a natural disaster💀 anyone can handle a spider

[Staximus]

Listen little Grand Inquisitor, not everybody is a great emergency or crisis manager. Not everybody can keep a level head when the shit hits the fan

[Staximus]

Bad people are everywhere and they are not just men, and some people are not street smart enough to realize what kind of shitty situation they are in

[chocolatetwopointo]

most do tho, and those who dont, they dont go outside a lot

[NathanDavis]

I don't want to sound sexist but...

the majority of drivers who think that their cars will not float away when you drive into a flooded street which is the result of a natural disaster... are not usually, men...

[chocolatetwopointo]

the same way men r more likely to get into car crashes… not trying to sound sexist but…

[NathanDavis]

but is true

[NathanDavis]

road rage as well

[chocolatetwopointo]

so whats ur point?

[NathanDavis]

same as the one at the very start

[chocolatetwopointo]

and that is? women suck and need protectors wherever they go?

[NathanDavis]

no... if I can, I help anybody who needs it, man or woman, young or old...

animals too

[chocolatetwopointo]

mhm and it came to a point of saying that women r terrible drivers.. veryy protective..

[NathanDavis]

I said, what stats show...

there was a big ass storm in the region just days ago, and yes...

most of the rescued people who drove their cars into flooded streets and lost their car there were... women, as much as 80%

and 90% of the Rescue and Protect responders were, yes... men

[chocolatetwopointo]

so did i, okay and? men crash more? whats ur point? that women r useless and should js stay inside?

[NathanDavis]

going outside is not the problem...

just don't drive into things that look like rivers... keep the cars, on the street, where they belong, lol

[chocolatetwopointo]

say that to the millions of men who crash cars?

[NathanDavis]

I do... all the time

don't drink and drive

[chocolatetwopointo]

mostly its men who want to seem cool by speeding and then crashinh

[NathanDavis]

true

[chocolatetwopointo]

so who r the bad drivers again?

[NathanDavis]

alcoholics and people who text while driving

[chocolatetwopointo]

and the majority of those are…? men.

[NathanDavis]

some studies seem to point to men... being worse at texting and driving

but women do it more often

women do it more but crash less... men do it less but do crash more often... might make sense if you consider men are more careless and reckless

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok so men r the problem then, like always

[RavVid]

Mostly from a conceptual threat though a girl has ducked behind me so she thought it more than conceptual. We are better at reading threats because we have always had to be.

[chocolatetwopointo]

wdym?

[RavVid]

In terms of threat perception?

Because we have always done the fighting we have needed to be good at threat perception.

Walk into a bar and assess who to be careful of. Get on a tram and assess who is a threat. Walk down the street and assess if the people hanging on the corner are a threat.

[chocolatetwopointo]

most people can fight tho?

[exitseven]

I had a guy be really rude to my wife at a kids soccer game. I made him apologize. You just never know when you will encounter an asshole.

[chocolatetwopointo]

dont u think she could’ve done that herself?

[exitseven]

No, this guy was a real asshole. He was one of these guys who probably was not very good at sports when he was a kid so he is trying to live through his son. He was pretty manic.

[Douglas1180]

I would have just chilled and watched if someone tried to mess with one of my girlfriends. That would have been hilarious.

[DryGermanGuy]

Depends on the country I am in. In Australia it would be from dangerous dropbears! 😱

[chocolatetwopointo]

not sure you would helo

[chocolatetwopointo]

help*

[sirderpsalot123]

I don't think I've ever said that, but I would do my best to protect her from anyone/anything that tried to hurt her. It could be other men, an animal, a group of girls jumping her, etc.

[chocolatetwopointo]

y'all always say its not all men tho? and against an animal a man wouldn't stand a chance, and why r u dating a problematic girl?

[sirderpsalot123]

It isn't all men, but some men are bad and IF one tried anything I would of course protect her. Or at least try to.

The animal could be anything from a dog to a bear, notice how I said "do my best" even if that meant it was a grizzly bear. I obviously wouldn't stand a chance, but I would still try to keep it focused on me hoping she could get away.

I don't date problematic girls, but IF she found herself getting jumped, I wouldn't just watch and let it happen.

[chocolatetwopointo]

mhmm.
you couldnt do anything to a bear. and a woman could easily fight off a dog. we’re not helpless 6 yr olds yk. if she deserves it, why not?

[spartan55]

A woman coyld 'easily fight off a dog'. This is why I just don't

[chocolatetwopointo]

why u dont do what?

[spartan55]

Run along now, the, adults are busy.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why u dont what?

[sirderpsalot123]

I said I wouldn't stand a chance a against a bear. I know you're a kid and all, but come on... read a little slower and try to actually understand what's being said

It's unlikely to be an easy or guaranteed victory for women, especially against a larger or aggressive dog.

But again. The point is I would TRY my best to protect her from any dangerous situation. I could fail, I could end up seriously injured or dead and then I would just hope I did enough to allow her to get away.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i read that, i said it as an example.. the same way u did..
oh come on. you couldnt handle a larger or aggressive dog either so js stfu.
well if smth happens then ur obviously not good enough. thats js desperate as fuck, dying cuz of a girl, come on.

[sirderpsalot123]

You gave an "example" by repeating exactly what I said?

I actually have had to fight off a dog that attacked my mom. But it doesn't matter because I'm not claiming to be some kind of tough guy, I'm just saying I will always try to protect my girlfriend even if I died in the process.

I'm going to give you the benefit of doubt and say you're just another bored troll on GAG. Have a good day.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes i used YOUR example.

ah wow yeah right. what did u do? how did u fight it? how big was it? thats such a desperate move.

lmao can't handle it?

[sirderpsalot123]

Yeah you're definitely a troll lol

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao so u never did? got it.

[sirderpsalot123]

I was more responding to your "that's a desperate move" ... yeah, I guess I am desperate for my mom to be alive and healthy for as long as possible... lol

[chocolatetwopointo]

why would u die for a girl? thats desperate. she’ll live. and u didn't answer ANY of my questions.

[spartan55]

Because your questions are fucking stupid. Now go away.

[chocolatetwopointo]

was i talking to u?

[spartan55]

Don't care

[sirderpsalot123]

Why would I want to answer any of your questions when you start with "ah wow yeah right" you made it very clear you don't care about aything that I have to say.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so ur disrespectful AND retarded? crazy combination

[chocolatetwopointo]

well if u explained maybe i would.

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope, and if a dog wanted to kill me, you wouldn't stand a chance either.

[Kayla45]

I dunno either, might as well wrap bubble wrap around me and keep me in the house so nothing bad can happen. 🙄 Guys can be overprotective at times.

[Yannae]

So far it's been an ex, her family, a dog and spiders lol
And sometimes herself, she tends to overthink things.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why r u dating her? seems problematic, she should be able to handle that herself

[Yannae]

Oh she is the sane one. I date her cause she has all the qualities I want in partner. I can't choose her background. Just helped her cut the toxic people out of her life. She can handle herself now. Even the spiders although it's worth the watch still.

[hirew72673]

Anyone and anything.

Doesn't matter if I'm actually capable of it, but I'll be damned if I don't try to protect the ones I love, be that negative feelings or experiences, bad choices, or taking a bullet.

[chocolatetwopointo]

u wouldn't stand a chance against any

[Fireguy17]

any possible dangers to her health welfare or safety.

[chocolatetwopointo]

like what?

[Fireguy17]

fires, locusts, plague, robbers, dangerous situations, idiots, just about anything that can harm her that I can prevent or at least try to prevent.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why can't she do that on her own? why r y'all trying to seem like superman?

[Fireguy17]

nope, she is actually a better shot than I am, god bless military training.
You asked I answered.
It isn't up to me to come up with an answer that you like.
It is one of those questions that if you aren't prepared for the answer then don't ask the question.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so then she's the one protecting u?

[oldpigg]

Those who say that are simps

[shortster]

The world, but mostly from the dregs of society these days. Not as much bear attacks these days.

[chocolatetwopointo]

like what?

[shortster]

Murderers, rapists, thieves, etc.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so.. men?

[chocolatetwopointo]

im also wondering, what would u do, that she wouldn't be able to do?

[shortster]

Not all men are criminals and not all criminals are men. So no, not men specifically.

[chocolatetwopointo]

sure but men make up 99% of those titles…

[shortster]

Not so much what she couldn't do; but rather what she doesn't want to do.

[chocolatetwopointo]

wdym?

[shortster]

Federal prison stats have it more of a 93:6; and we all know women are less likely to be convicted of crimes that they commit.

[shortster]

Meat shield, go down with the ship, shut up in a heated argument.

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao, no women js dont do those crimes. so you’ll js shield her with ur beer belly? wowww so helpful.

[shortster]

Well if it is a bullet. Women do, I just watched an episode of Dateline where one woman kidnapped and killed another woman and the victims mother forgave the woman but wouldn't forgive the guy they were both dating.

[chocolatetwopointo]

u realise thats a show right? im talking ab irl. women do what?

[shortster]

Dateline is a news program. It was a real life case.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay? not sure what u want me to do ab it?

[JohnnyB123321]

Protection is not always a person. But if I say that I probably just mean that if some psycho tried to mug her I’d break his jaw.

[Lynx122]

You! You seem scary :)

[chocolatetwopointo]

blocked byebye

[Anonymous]

My husband protects me from being used by my family and makes me know it's okay to say no

[chocolatetwopointo]

r u 5? why can't u do that on ur own?

[Opinion Owner]

You have been been an abusive relationship which is good but that also mean you don't understand

[chocolatetwopointo]

what? i think smth went wrong with that scentance. but u gotta suck it up, can't act like a 5 yr old.

[Iron_Man]

from live itself mean people that come afternoon you

[Kingofkings1992]

Please do yourself a favor and delete your gag account. Every time you come here you embarrass yourself

[chocolatetwopointo]

js block me?

[wkhan_87]

It means actually he is taking her responsibility of life need. like food , home and basic needs.

[wkhan_87]

And I am talking about husband wife relationship

[chocolatetwopointo]

thats providing, not protecting

[lazermazer]

From the people who want to use and throw away. From the killers and rapists.

[Smile456]

All the other men out there who would have their way with her

[spartan55]

Any threat to their safety.

[chocolatetwopointo]

like what?

[spartan55]

Violent attackers, natural disasters, etc.

[chocolatetwopointo]

what would u do against a natural disaster?💀

[spartan55]

Depends on what it was, where we were location wise

[chocolatetwopointo]

bro there's nothing u would be able to do? ur not thanos💀

[spartan55]

I don't have the energy to argue with your stupid ass today.

[chocolatetwopointo]

bro we both know ur not gna be able to do anything ab a tsunami or earthquake💀

[spartan55]

I didn't mean defeat it like a street fight.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so what’d u do?

[spartan55]

Go to the FEMA website , it gives instructions there.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and now, why would a woman not be able to do that? u men r so full of urselves its crazy.

[chocolatetwopointo]

no id do smth, i wouldn't protect anyone. id drive somewhere, not stand over a woman like a shield acting like smth would happen.

[katiesmuff]

From anything that might happen!

[chocolatetwopointo]

like what?

[MemeSupreme]

clearly haven't watched twillight

[Sevenpointfive]

these melonheaded dudes that be skirtin her

[TwoToTooTutu2]

Anything and everything.

[chocolatetwopointo]

like what?

[TwoToTooTutu2]

Ghost, alien, dog, mugger, crazy ex girlfriend

[historectomy]

Scary monsters usually

[Anonymous]

any dangers what else?

[Opinion Owner]

I saw your response to others here, you an absurd ridiculous person. A woman walking alone will always be a higher risk of getting abducted and such rather than a woman walking with a man by her side. Are you stupid or just pretend to be?

[chocolatetwopointo]

obviously ik that, thats why most women dont.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and like what dangers?

[Apple1996]

Other men

[chocolatetwopointo]

yet they always say its not all men

[Alex-Snow]

I agree that is kinda weird

[DrPepper12]

Great question!! "And a child shall lead them..."

[DCVsMarvel]

I mean, "the bad guys", right?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yet y'all always say its not all men?

[beefcakebradybatson]

Other lads !!!

[chocolatetwopointo]

yet y'all always say its not all men?

[beefcakebradybatson]

Ninety to 95% of men.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so the majority of men?

[beefcakebradybatson]

Vast majority of men.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay if u say so

[Becky93]

From person who’d harm her.

[chocolatetwopointo]

like who?

[Becky93]

One who protects their SO.

[chocolatetwopointo]

like who would harm her

[Becky93]

Person who wants her. They are people don’t take no for an answer.

[chocolatetwopointo]

men usually leave when a woman says she has a boyfriend, they respect men more than women

[Becky93]

Not all and when they find out I have girlfriend they tend to try harder. Their people who hunt those in relationships.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i said men tho.

[Anonymous]

Other men usually

[chocolatetwopointo]

yet they say ”not all men” constantly when women bring it up?

[Opinion Owner]

It’s not all men I agree with that , there’s bad women in this world also.

[chocolatetwopointo]

point flew right over ur head.

[WilliamPamer446]

Other Guys

[chocolatetwopointo]

dont y'all always say its not all men?

[WilliamPamer446]

I protect my daughter, cousin and boo from all other men, because they are potential threats. Im a guy and can sense danger in other men. I have to be overprotective.

[WilliamPamer446]

My hormones influence my overprotector

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok so u think its all men?

[WilliamPamer446]

They are bad

[chocolatetwopointo]

all men?

[WilliamPamer446]

Yes I know how other men are

[WilliamPamer446]

I'm joking buddy but we do have a radar sense

[chocolatetwopointo]

mhm..

[WilliamPamer446]

I Know That The Seahorse Emoji is Real because I've sent that emoji

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay?

[WilliamPamer446]

You like overprotective daddies?

[chocolatetwopointo]

no? wtf💀

[Sleephazard]

Their brothers and all that crap. Lmao!

[Ariesman81]

Herself

[chocolatetwopointo]

what?

[Ariesman81]

I SAID... HERSELF!

[chocolatetwopointo]

fym herself

[Ariesman81]

You as dumb as your deaf?

[chocolatetwopointo]

FUCK YOU MEAN HERSELF. what is it that u dont fucking understand u retarded bitch.

[PaleDale]

Enough

[chocolatetwopointo]

huh?

[Anonymous]

From myself.

[Lokiion]

Scary