So whats the deal?

[Anonymous]

Okay so a little backstory: myself (26 y o female) and my (27 y o male S. O) have been together for just over 6 months. At the start our bedroom time lasted around 45-1.5h but recently it lasts no longer than 10 minutes...

I'm probably over thinking this because I just watched a video that girls are apparently worried when a guy takes a while and im here worrie if im doing something wrong now... when he needs no longer than 10 mins.

So the question is why was it like that at the start? Why is it like that now? And is it a good thing or a bad thing he gets off quicker?

[SueShe]

Well, it is quite a performance for your man because on the average, it takes a man between 5 to 7 minutes to orgasm and ejaculate during sexual intercourse. This is the time according to several sources and not taken from a porn site.

Specifically, a 2005 study of 500 couples from five countries (the Netherlands, United Kingdom, Spain, Turkey, and the United States) found that the median time from initial penetration to ejaculation during penile-vaginal sex is 5.4 minutes. The use of a condom or circumcision status did not impact the time to ejaculation.

Source: Sexual Medicine Society of North America

https://www.smsna.org/patients/did-you-know/how-long-does-it-take-the-average-man-to-ejaculate

[Abbycado]

Excitement probably wore off.

[SueShe]

I am excited that the Spring season is coming. My bike is ready and it will take me more than 90 minutes to finish (my ride) 👍

Shortly before Winter, I did not last more than 15 minutes. I froze my thingies off.

Could there be a correlation?

[Abbycado]

@SueShe Hmm, correlation indeed. Perhaps that explains my own deficiencies of thingies. Mighty cold winters here.

I'm jelly of you getting to ride. I wanted to. The rain...

[SueShe]

Ride the train rather than the rain and we are even 😒

[strateguy632]

now does less foreplay because you are already close

[Anonymous]

You might want to dump him. Probably cheating.

[In_Trance]

Honeymoons over