He says you are loved instead of I love you?

[Anonymous]

Is there a difference when men use the term “you are loved” instead of the usual “I love you”

[236color]

I think he views "I love you" as a trap that gives you power over him, (and to a degree, it does). Love is that point where you're willing to give up some control. Now does he do this because he's frightened of losing control, or because he wants to manipulate you and wants a technicality for a way out? That would be a stupid idea that he could use it that way, but maybe he needs it so he can convince himself he's not a bad guy. Women use a similar tactic when they break up with a guy. It's called "We can still be friends".

[ProbablyClueless]

I would assume that there is a difference, yes

[ımthehunter]

No im not