Why do the hell men aspire a woman who is career oriented and then expect her to be homely and carry out household duties?

[Kaira_22]

[conanbdetective]

We don't. If we wanted a career oriented partner, either we're both career oriented so settling down to start a family is further into the future or not at all. Or one of us takes care of the house; that's just realistic. We all got roles to play to make it work.

Maybe you're a career person and the ones you've met as potential partners prefer a partner who's more about the home. So what's on your mind?

[DCVsMarvel2]

Same reason my mom does with my dad.

My mom, works two jobs, my dad, one (but he's the breadwinner still). They both however, still manage to take care of the house and all that, he even does the cooking (he used to be a chef)

[katiesmuff]

No idea what your point is here or even what you are trying to get across to us!

[In_Trance]

Trust me there's no expectation

Any man would gladly accept a shy polite woman with zero achievements over an arrogant career oriented woman

[jahaims]

You almost said something. Good job

[yotaman99]

I don’t I want her to succeed