What is so wrong with a woman having a job, taking care of her man, kids if they have any and the household chores?

[Anonymous]

Why do some people see it wrongful for a woman to have a full time job and then go back home and clean, cook and take care of her husband and kids if they have any? Men, would men like a women who does these things for you?

I see the husbands of these women get ridiculed and the women get ridiculed too but I see nothing wrong with it...

Let the woman take care of her family, I'm sure the guy does his best to take care of her as well! A woman that takes care of her man that she claims to so love is a role model to me and a guy who takes care of his girl is a man I would love to have in my life. And if they have kids and take of them too well then bob's your uncle! that's a winner!. its a beautiful thing!.

[Apple1996]

She will probably be too invested in her job and won't be able to fully care for kids/husband/the house. I'm a stay at home mom and can't imagine having a job. Would literally have to ignore my loved ones for the majority of the day. My husband for example works a pretty busy schedule. Only sees us from about 5-7 everynight and the weekends. My kids often cry that he's not home enough. Wouldn't want to make them suffer even more from me working too.

[Asker]

No ways I understand!, I really do, I think being able to stay home with your kids is a blessing my Parents had to leave my siblings and I with a nanny and when she would leave to go on work leave/vacation I would be so happy because I got to spend more time with my parents and my mom especially then when school would open and my mom had to go back to work I would sob while getting ready for school!.

and my nanny would ask why are you so sad, have you been crying, and I would just give her a lie of an excuse because I loved her too I didn't want to say anything to hurt her feelings, she was the best but I loved my mom more and wanted to be with my mom more!. I'm tearing up thinking about it!. You have a point though and a really good one!

[LazerBean]

People only ridicule it because 80% of the time the men in those relationships do absolutely nothing and complain about having to "babysit" their own kids when once in a blue moon they actually are made to do something. Nobody has a problem when the couple are actually equal.

[Asker]

I hear you, Now that i think of it if they both work full time, then they both gotta find a way to chip in equally to take care of the house/kids and each other!

[Whatever2929292]

I don't think it would be fair if both people are working and one person does all the housework. I am sorry I just don't think that is fair to you. If that is what you want then... You do you you have your own personal standards.

One person should not be expected to do more though. I say the same thing if a woman stays at home, and she still has a honey do list

[RobEurope]

I would help in the household though.

[Anonymous]

Not a thing in my opinion.