How can I get my mom to understand her responsibilities aren't mine?

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I am 18 in college and my mother is expecting me to clean up after her cause she calls it (taking care of her). she doesn't even take take of her own dog! Me and my sister are taking care of him but we barely have the time since we cook, clean, taking care of my mom (doing everything for her) having 4 classes on top of that. she doesn't care about how we feel in any situation she always says her decision is final and it's not suppose to be fair. she doesn't let us get a job nor a car, I barely got my permit to drive. my mom doesn't want me to go to driving classes cause she doesn't want to pay for it. my mother is very forgetful, manipulative, narcissistic, and very childish. than she told us that went me and my sister get a job she wants us to give her a discount on things and some of our money (20 dollars form me and my sister each month!) me and my sister aren't doing that but she is very a problem starter and acts like the child in the house even though she is 52 years old. she gets very aggressive went she gets upset and don't get her way or went people disagree with her, also my mom cares about what other people think about her life, family, children and her choices. this is very sad for me to see cause I feel like nobody can help her only God can. this is a very sad situation for me and my sister cause I know my mother can't parent me correctly ( not saying their is a correct way but their is a wrong way) me and my sister need help with her. i started parenting myself and look at YouTube for guidance on how to be a women in this world along with the bible. i don't listen to my mom's advice unless I see that it fits what the Bible says and address it to my life.
How can I get my mom to understand her responsibilities arent mine?
How can I get my mom to understand her responsibilities aren't mine?
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