If you tell a guy you like him and he has a partner why would he be awkward now?

[Anonymous]

For what reasons would a guy be awkward now?

[Shiprex]

He would be awkward because of the tension created between you that he doesn't want to cause conflict between people he cares about that is concentrated around him.

[Asker]

You mean he doesn’t want that tension to cause conflict within his girlfriend or with me?

[Shiprex]

Yes it would and when jealousy has been initiated in women then it's a hard fight to get her to stop.

[Asker]

Yeah ok thank you

[Shiprex]

You're welcome

[Shiprex]

Thanks for the SO

[spartan55]

Uh... because he has a girlfriend? You can't be this clueless...🙄

[Asker]

But I mean why would that make him feel awkward? I accept that, so why can’t we move on, why continue to be awkward.

[spartan55]

He has 'moved on', he wants nothing to do with you. I don't blame him in the least. Why would you say that to a guy that has a girlfriend?

[Asker]

lol, I didn’t know he had a girlfriend and he was flirting a lot with me, so go figure!

[spartan55]

Well, you weren't real clear on that. Why does it matter, since you know now?

[Asker]

I just feel annoyed that I was led on and now think why the fff is he awkward when he was the one to initiate a lot of the fitting,

[Asker]

**Flirting

[spartan55]

Because he is a turd who clearly doesn't respect his girlfriend. I mean, do you really need to know anything else? This isn't some deep thing. He used you for attention, it happens.

[Asker]

Yeah not really, people are weird eh. Thanks though

[spartan55]

Sorry that happened to you. ALWAYS perform your 'relationship due diligence' up front.
Ask any guy you are interested in if they have a wife or girlfriend. There are many who will just not mention it. There are a few who will lie about it, but it's very easy to sus them out.

[spartan55]

I'm still really confused why you care about what a dude like that thinks. Keep moving forward. You are too young to concern yourself with turds.

[Asker]

Thank you, yes I need to do my homework next time.

[spartan55]

It will save you a world of hassle... good luck!

[Asker]

Mainly because I see him daily so it is awkward, and can’t really avoid him.

[spartan55]

I would think he would only disgust after all that?

[spartan55]

How did you find out he had a girlfriend?

[Asker]

How do you mean disgust? Because I told him I liked him back in Jan via private message, but he said he only saw that massage two weeks ago, so 4 months later and then asked ‘didn’t I think it was weird that he hadn’t said anything’ quite a few times, not sure why that mattered? Anyway I just said I thought he wasn’t interested. Then he said he has a girlfriend.

[Asker]

But the only reason I sent that message was because of the flirting that had built up and continued too, until apparently few weeks ago. I believe he got with his girl also in Jan.

[spartan55]

Disgust because he's a lying turd? Whatever, raise the bar for yourself, this guy ain't it.

[Asker]

Ah right yeah I see, thank you, appreciate it

[V1ka5h]

If you ask him and he is with her girl then he would definitely feel awkward.

Otherwise no

[Asker]

Yes this is what happened, but I didn’t know he had a girlf. He is awkward when I see him now so what’s he thinking?

[V1ka5h]

If you are sexy just tease him a little bit you will get him. Teasing here doesn't mean showing of your body. Just be you...
But I say sound good, you'll a get more boys, even better

[Asker]

Haha you reckon? More boys from being sexy you mean? So why is he so awkward do you think now?

[V1ka5h]

Naah I talking about you that if you are sexy then he would definitely come to you easily but if he is a loyal man we won't

As I'm saying you'll get more boys don't worry

[Asker]

Yeah ok I see haha. Why do you think he’s so awkward now though?

[V1ka5h]

If you are sexy yess he is awkward now cuz your boobs are sexy and he also wants to spank you harder but can't cuz he is in relationship

[Asker]

lol that’s funny I see 🤣

[V1ka5h]

That's the truth... If you are with a male friend and you guys are touchy then he wants to squeeze your melons but he is waiting for a perfect.

I think you you should let him squeeze your melons and get spanked too

[Anonymous]

You are putting him in an uncomfortable situation.

[Asker]

Yes I understand that, but what about if you didn’t know he had a girlfriend and he’d previously shown signs of interest.

[GuybrushFunkwadd]

It's really complicated

[Asker]

How do you mean?