Why is he so cold towards me?

[Anonymous]

This young guy I like.. we been talking for quiet sometime, but with me being 44 and he is 23 I don’t want to feel like I’m robbing the cradle, but just recently although this been going back and forth for some time now, but my last recent interaction with him was a few days ago, I sent him a few cash apps to get his attention, then he ended up texting me asking me to link up with him, but he seems to not wanna put effort into comming to meet me , why does he want me to put all the effort into making the connection? Shouldn’t he come to me?, then I find myself making excuses for not wanting to hook up with him, then I think of if I send him cash again he would be grateful for that over wanting sex with me , I’m so confuse as to what he really want from me wen he sent me a video of his penis and said it was waiting for me, I brushed it off as if I wasn’t interested… can someone tell me what this young guy wants from me? Or is I’m doing something wrong? Why won’t he be glad that I gave him money?

[RespectfulGuy]

Reading your long description, my mind kept saying "he's for the money" and your last statement confirms it.

Yes, you're giving him incentive to exploit you.

He doesn't love you.

20 years age gap is very wide. Wide enough for you to be him mum. And he's not into you as a person.

Sorry to be so blunt.

But yours is the 2nd case I personally witness / read.

To avoid hurting yourself, considering letting him go, and then look for someone closer to your age group who loves you, not your money.

[OneViewpoint]

You're a pay pig. Congratulations. I'm sure he appreciates the money and would like more of that.

[Anonymous]

Stop sending money to the man if you don’t like him.

[Asker]

I thought that the money would make up for me not wanting to hook up with him

[Opinion Owner]

You don’t have to pay a man to not have sex with you.

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for mho

[spartan55]

This has to be fake.