How to tell a guy I’ve romantically talked to I just want to hookup?

[KittygosMeoWW]

Hooked up with a guy I talked to for a while and was nice to me/took me on sweet dates. It was more of a fuck it I just want to end my celibacy streak and not let the last guy I ever fuck be my ex thing. Guy thinks we’re dating and I haven’t said no because the sex was good but I know I’m not emotionally available. He sent me flowers today and wants to go kayaking this weekend with me but I just want to keep hooking up and not spend time together anymore.

Updates

11 mo

Also if he texts me throughout the day and I leave him on read will he not want to hookup anymore lol.

[DJB72]

Suck it up and tell him. If he's asking you to do stuff together he's emotionally invested in you. That means he's probably a decent guy. Don't turn him into a woman-hating asshole for the next girl

[KittygosMeoWW]

Talked to him and he thinks he can change my mind, we’re going to keep seeing each other.

[DJB72]

Good luck. Stay honest with him (and yourself) and see where it goes. If you've only seen him a few times you don't know what could happen.

[DryGermanGuy]

Just send him this... :-D

https://www.youtube.com/embed/r3AP26ywQsQ

[PeachyPie93]

Just be honest you dumb bitch. If you aren't serious just tell him so you don't ruin another one..

[KittygosMeoWW]

Lmao

[WhitneySnow]

He may be hurt that you don’t like him that way. Or he may figure that’s great.

[spartan55]

I'm trying to imagine if this situation were reversed the guy would be the biggest A-hole ever... double standards...🙄

[StevenMcGarrett]

Just be upfront with him and tell him what you want. It sounds like he is starting to have feelings for you. But I think if you tell him that you just want the sex, I am pretty sure he will understand and keep having sex with you.

[Shiprex]

First thoughts are don't use him as a toy, that's unfair. Tell him your situation and what you want so he's not led on

[ChicoFromThe305]

Just tell him so he can find what he wants elsewhere

[7Phoenix7]

Let him know ASAP... Before he falls in too deep.

[Bklynbadboy12]

You are too much!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[SamWinchester058]

Grab your ovaries and just tell him. It's going to be a heck of a lot easier to do it now rather than break his heart in a month because you didn't respect him enough to tell him.

[nawtee_me]

Go out with him and hookup and then let him down easily afterwards since he will fall in love with you after the sex…. lol.

[Twalli]

Tell him you're not ready for a romantic relationship yet, but you really enjoyed the sex with him, and if he's happy with a solely sexual relationship (for now), then you'd be happy to have sex with him again.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

How? But you already know, just communicate, as usual lol

[Staximus]

A guy that wants to go kayaking means he sees you as more than just a piece of meat. The is no reason why you can't go out and have fun, try enjoying life

[Ironco]

You're almost 30, stop playing selfish games. Be open and honest with the guy.

[PeterLegg91]

You got yourself In a right pickle, it's gna suck for him

[Bklynbadboy12]

Just tell him your gorgeous chances are he wants to hook up. with you anyway

[RHK36]

Just be honest with him. You don't like him anyway, so what's there to lose.

[Jennz6]

Tell him that you just want sex

[Nerdvana]

After how dates did you first have sex?

[hello4433]

Ask him what he thinks about friends with benefits

[Shortkay4568]

Just straight up say it

[Anonymous]

Just talk to him, he might like the idea.

[Rollingstones84]

Lol typical

[Gaylordslav]

Lucky guy

[Flower2006]

Just tell him

[wkhan_87]

Say directly