Do women know the difference between A good guy and a bad guy?

[chris_987]

And if you do, are you choosing the bad guy on purpose?

[Anonymous]

A good guy is usually considerate, kind, sweet and would do almost anything for you while the bad guy is usually emotionally unavailable, avoidant, disrespectful, and uncaring of how you feel. The bad guys can be charming and fun but they also usually lack compassion and kindness. But will come off that way at first to get into a girl's pants.

I've been with both and will choose a good guy over the bad one.

[chris_987]

The point is you should never choose the bad guy in the first place. But women always do

[Opinion Owner]

I was young and dumb.

[chris_987]

No, I don't think that's it. Cuz there are plenty of women that aren't attracted to bad guys and it's not because they're smart. They just don't like when people are bad.

I never saw somebody who was bullying somebody and thought it was attractive. I never saw somebody who was committing a crime and thought it was attractive. But if a girl does it has nothing to do with her intelligence. It's just what she's attracted to.

[Opinion Owner]

Let me rephrase. I wasn't very wise or wasn't filled with discernment when I made my choice to be with a bad boy over the good guy. I was very naive and believed that I could change him.

[chris_987]

How long throughout human history do you think that story has happened? There's even stories about women in the Bible doing the same thing. So it's definitely not a choice. And women after you thousand years from now will make the same choice. So you just need to accept who are so you can change

[Apple1996]

Its pretty impossible to know when men go out of their way to play nice guy and hide their true self.

[chris_987]

I doubt that. Every man with a 100% certainty can tell you which guys are bad and what the red flags are. But women always struggle to see the wolves in sheep clothing. So it's clearly just you guys being ignorant of the fact that you're attracted to bad guys. Either that or you're just actually that dumb

[Apple1996]

Because men are usually good to other men but behind closed doors with women its a different story those men turn into monsters. I've noticed its always the nicest guy in the room who is usually the most violent and dangerous for women to date. They put on a front to look nicer than what they are.

[chris_987]

No, I've never met a guy that I couldn't get a good read on. Girls are literally be dating guys that have been to prison. You do realize that the prison population is 1%. So if you're seeking out 1% of the population, you're literally asking for the bad guy. It's not rocket science

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Because the "good guy" nowadays isn't actually that good.

[chris_987]

So basically what you're saying is there's no such thing as a good guy

[Anonymous]

Sometimes you don’t know they’re a bad person until after you talk to them

[chris_987]

Or after you sleep with them

[Opinion Owner]

I haven’t slept with anyone yet , so I wouldn’t know that for sure

[chris_987]

Your waiting till marriage?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope , just haven’t gotten an irl date now

[Opinion Owner]

Yet not now ^ typo

[chris_987]

I understand

[Miristheiss]

I would say many do not.

[Anonymous]

They chose the good one

[chris_987]

Hilarious, what do you think the friend zone is?