Many men feel awkward maintaining eye contact with a girl, so it's common practice to show a little cleavage just to give them something to focus on and help them relax. If I feel a guy is uncomfortable looking at my eyes, I'll give the puppies a jiggle just to temporarily draw his eye and help him relax. If I've a face to face meeting with a guy who's known to be shy, I always wear something low-cut to help him look at me rather than stare at the table.
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True or false, if a guy stares at your cleavage he's too shy to make eye contact?
False. While some shy individuals might avoid eye contact by looking at other body parts, like the chest, a guy staring at cleavage is more likely a sign of attraction or a lack of social awareness rather than shyness, according to Quora. It's important to note that staring at someone's cleavage is generally considered rude and disrespectful. Here's why: Attraction: Men may be drawn to a woman's cleavage due to sexual attraction, and this can override their usual social cues like making eye contact. Lack of social awareness: Some individuals may not realize that staring at someone's chest is inappropriate or offensive. Cultural differences: Some cultures may have different norms regarding eye contact and body language, but in most Western cultures, staring at someone's chest is considered rude,
Here's why it's not a simple true or false:
Possible reasons for staring at cleavage and avoiding eye contact Shyness/Nervousness: A shy guy might feel uncomfortable making direct eye contact with someone he's attracted to, and his gaze may inadvertently drift to less direct areas like cleavage. Checking out/Attraction: He might simply find you attractive and be looking at your chest because of that attraction, not necessarily due to shyness. Embarrassment: He could be embarrassed about his gaze and quickly look away when you catch him, according to a Quora user. Intimidation: He might feel intimidated by you and find it easier to look at your cleavage than to make direct eye contact. Discomfort with eye contact: He might generally be uncomfortable with eye contact, regardless of who he is talking to.
Differentiating between shyness and rudeness Observe other body language: A truly shy individual might display other signs of nervousness, such as blushing, fidgeting, or looking away quickly when you meet his gaze. Consider their behavior with others: A shy guy might be generally reserved or quiet around you but more comfortable and conversational with others. Nature of the gaze: A brief glance might be simply noticing, while prolonged staring can be seen as disrespectful and make you uncomfortable. Important note: Staring can be considered rude, regardless of the underlying reason. If someone's gaze makes you uncomfortable, it's important to address the situation in a way that feels safe and appropriate for you.
I've overcome my shyness with experience, so I always make eye contact, and I don't look at a females cleavage. 🙂
But I've not totally overcome my shyness, perhaps the guys have a similar problem?
When I'm behind a female, they say females have eyes at the back of their heads. I didn't realise this was a shyness problem, until you've just diagnosed the problem, and I drop my eyes onto the females bottom region.
All females will now know, we males have been innocently looking at your boobs and bottoms, and we deserve an apology, for all the years of being accused of intentionally looking at your boobs and bottoms, when this is not the case.
No. His brain is just too distracted and too busty to render some erotic simulations. by the way. Hydra would be stupid if she would present such cleavage to Odysseus' men.
False.. They are attracted to your breast and they can’t help but stare that’s exactly what they’re doing. Yes, some guys are intimidated by a girls looks. they don’t wanna look at them in there eyes. But I don’t think they focus on the girls breast because of that. I think they focus on her breast because they admire them. i’ve had many women that were beautiful freeze when they saw me coming and I can tell they were very attracted to me and extremely shy and that gives me an ego boost. I loved it, but of course I’m also shy and they had people around them for me to make a move myself there’s not a lot of time when you’re passing through and you don’t know them.
I talk with my words, not with my eyes. I don't have to look at someone at all when talking to them, face or otherwise. I'm too Autistic to interpret their silly mundane facial twitches, and they're too mundane to read my expressions even if I cared to make any. I only make an exception for work for the sake of not p! ssing off anyone with financial control over me. Plus I wear sunglasses outdoors at all times due to light sensitivity, so there would be no eye contact even if I was effectively staring holes through their skull from behind the lenses... which tends to be the case when people try to pressure me into making eye contact.
Certainly false. When I look at a lady's cleavage, my attention is plainly drawed to her breasts because I just love to look at breasts, which actually would in all logic be followed by some eye contact. No? In any case my attention's aim would never be to upset the lady. I just love breasts...
False. If a guy is that shy he will look lower down. Maybe your feet. Not risk being called out for boob staring! That would be even worse for a shy guy!
Had a woman call me out once for staring at her cleavage. I calmly said I wasn't staring at your boobs I was looking at the wasp that just landed on you.
Not quite but it's nice that you think so. Cleavage brings us back to our youth. Our earliest most satisfying experiences where the fun bags creating cleavage were feasts and life giving nourishment and like you should know @purplepoppy , the way to a man's heart is through the stomach.
Kudos Poppy. I imagine there must a have been a few times when you had to pop those puppies out if the guy was really shy. Thanks for all you do for humanity.
If I feel a guy is uncomfortable looking at my eyes, I'll give the puppies a jiggle just to temporarily draw his eye and help him relax.
I know how I would react in that sitiatuon. However, Im curious does that actually work for you? Also, if your wearing a bra as most women do your boobs shouldn't jiggle much (if at all) ...
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Anonymous
(18-24)
11 mo
The thing with me is, I don’t like maintaining eye contact with anyone. I try to in a way that is ‘unnatural’ which results in me wanting to put my head down.
This is to men and women equally. Though I do go “don’t stare” or “don’t be rude” so, I’m not seen as a bad person instead of just going about my business which makes me seem bad….
I went with true but the real answer is depends on the guy. I actually did it to a cute waitress I just had accidently. I can't make eye contact with people it makes me anxious.
No, it means he likes looking at your cleavage. If he's truly shy and feeling awkward, he'll look down or past you to either side, or he'll just dart around all over the place.
Looks like you're doing a great work. Some women get offended by this like If you're wearing something that shows cleavage, then what's wrong in staring at it? If you don't like people looking, then don't wear something like that.
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