Should a girl chase after a guy?

[Anonymous]

I don't know im 33. Im at the age where of its not mutual im not interested but there's a guy i really like who paid a lot of attention to me but he doesn't reply to my messages. I've sent him a ton of messages, even a joke... and he opens them but won't reply. I feel stupid

[HollyK21]

You didn’t feel stupid the first message, two or three that you sent so no point burdening yourself with those feelings now lol. As a fellow 33 year old, stop chasing. If he really liked you he’d be putting in the effort and you’re grown enough to know that already. Let him go. Better will come.

[itsannalee]

He might be busy there are sine people who don’t really like texting

[abc3643]

Guys aren't very good at texting. My wife always bitches to me that I don't reply.
So, if it's important, call. This will likely indicate to him that you are interested anyway.

[spartan55]

No one should be 'chasing' anyone. It's a stupid concept.

[Anonymous]

He’s not interested. If a man’s interested he will find a way to make time. When I was stationed overseas I used to wake up at 2 am just to talk to a girl back here in the states cause I liked her that much.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't chase someone who hasn't shown signs of interest.

[Ariesman81]

Yes. It's your job to look after the relationship so we can focus on the other things

[Anonymous]

Do you mean he shows you a lot of attention when he's physically around you

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope, move on to someone else

[jazzy34]

Leave him alone. That’s overboard on your part.

[Gaylordslav]

If a girl doesn't chase you're not the one for her