When men see me why do they want to seduce me first? Am I that ugly?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

tbh I just think the dating pool is trash. Most dudes are so terrified of commitment, scared of rejection. I can’t even blame it on younger guys anymore either it’s the older ones too except they’ve got bad marriages or long term relationships that turned to trash under their belt and now they’re scarred. Hookup culture is such the favorable move now too. When you’ve got dating apps that have women only a swipe away they won’t feel so bad being extra picky, vile or ghosters to a woman when they can log into tinder same night they silently dropped you and have another option within days.

[Asker]

Even the needs ugly men want sex wth

[Asker]

Nerds*

[Opinion Owner]

Keep in mind, just because you think they’re ugly doesn’t mean they think that of themselves. It takes a relatively good amount of confidence to pursue a woman for sex and if they’re explicit about that.

[Anonymous]

No you’re that hot. Or maybe all the guys you know are players.

[Asker]

Literally every man i know tries to be play boys i swear

[Opinion Owner]

You’re probably really hot. Either that or they’re just jerks.

[Ariesman81]

Now hear me out... inflatable pool, KY, a hidden camera and you two settle this like ladies.

[Orion84]

Why would they want to seduce an ugly woman?

More than likely, they find you attractive, and want to sleep with you. We don't try to seduce women we aren't attracted to.

[Asker]

Why am I never asked out on a real date then? And they want to sleep with me so fast

[Orion84]

Well, they obviously just want to sleep with you, rather than date you. That could be for any number of reasons, though, so it's difficult to say with any certainty.

You're likely very attractive, so maybe they think you're too good for them (i. e. out of their league). It could be that you just meet low quality men. Maybe you give off a vibe that deters people from wanting to date you.

I genuinely don't know, since I don't know you, so I am just throwing those out there as possibilities, but I doubt you're ugly.

[Asker]

Thanks

[OneViewpoint]

Your logic is weird. Why would they want to seduce an ugly woman who is a turnoff? Back up and try again. Maybe be honest this time.

[Asker]

Maybe they sense or i seem easy i have no fucking idea because they all start playing these hard to get games after we do it... all of them so I sense they arnt interested and leave them alone

[OneViewpoint]

There ya go. It's far more likely men do find you very attractive but not as girlfriend material. That could be something you need to examine about the way you come off to guys or it could be the guys you're exposed to.

Where are you meeting these guys? Work? Places you go out? Maybe find new places with a better crowd. Set higher standards for yourself.

How do you typically dress? Sorry but, stripper or bank VP. Like it or not people will judge you based on your choices and treat you accordingly. Take a serious look at your style and think about what may need to change.

Maybe you're hot, dress provocatively, and seem approachable so these assholes read that as an invitation to party. Maybe be a little less approachable. Slow it down. Make them work to have a conversation with you. See if they have an IQ higher than a horny chimp. Or maybe they just disappear if it looks like you're not gonna be easy and the assholes self eliminate.

[Asker]

I get a lot of attention down town and at the gym actually everywhere I go... but I am mostly attracted to pretty boys or players. I dont like players but the ones im most attracted to are players. Ugh. And I wear short shorts showing off my thick thighs or leggings showing off my nice ass lol. Im a cute girl I know Im not butt ass ugly but I was curious

[OneViewpoint]

As I thought. You're getting hit on because you are good looking. And you know it. But gym rats? Seriously? Could you find a worse place to get hit on by low IQ, low achievement losers with nom plan in life? I think we found the problem.

Think about this. No more guys you meet at the gym. Keep trying to get the attention of players and keep getting played. Or not. Your choice.

[Anonymous]

You either aren't putting yourself in good places, or you are overlooking people who could fill the hole you are looking for.

[Anonymous]

This question falls about 29 yards short of making any sense. Game over, try again.

[qwerty2469]

Probably