I think my coworker thinks he’s older than me and I’m scared for him to find out I’m 2 years older than him?

[Anonymous]

I think he thinks he’s older and I think it will change how he sees me… I just turned 28 and he’s 26… he actually thinks he’s older

do you think things will kind of change

[Finchie40]

Is he just a coworker or do you both have interest in each other? Whatever the case is , age doesn’t really determine someone’s chemistry and connection and attraction to each other. I have dated older girls’ just because her and I had great chemistry and connection and attraction for each other , her age didn’t stop me from wanting to be with her and my age didn’t bother her as well.

[spartan55]

How do you know that he 'thinks you are older', and why would it matter?

[Abbycado]

Oh no! 😱

Whatever will you do with your life?

[HollyK21]

Lmao this is just such a non issue I don’t get it Abby😭💀

[Abbycado]

Holly, I just huffed upon checking your profile and seeing your age. Goodbye.

[HollyK21]

Lmao Abby!😭

[HollyK21]

Lol I don’t see why that would matter🙃

[Asker]

I mean to a “younger “ guy… that could… usually women like men a bit older…. But I don’t know if that would make any attraction different.

[HollyK21]

I mean if you’re trying to attract this person that’s a whole different discussion. In a simple friendship between coworkers that shouldn’t matter at all.

[Asker]

I was attracted to him but nevermind

[Asker]

That’s why I was saying it

[HollyK21]

Nevermind? Okay…

[Asker]

Well because I don't know

What do you think

[HollyK21]

You don’t know about what? The attraction? The age difference?

[Asker]

If he would be attracted to me because of my age

[HollyK21]

It’s only a 2 year difference, I don’t see why not.

[Asker]

I think if a younger hotter girl came around I probably wouldn’t exist

[HollyK21]

Then if I were you I’d count that as a blessing lol in my opinion if he were that easily distracted then that’s a sign he clearly was only being flirtatious, not actually interested.

[Asker]

No he’s actually very reserved but we are coworkers so I wouldn’t do anything I was just curious… I kind of like older guys… like 35

[HollyK21]

Then I guess you wouldn’t have to worry about younger, hotter girls taking his attention, if he really is that reserved.

[Asker]

True ig….

[Asker]

He works at a radio station and is a sports commentator so I don’t know if he’s that shy

[HollyK21]

Keep in mind, being reserved and being shy are two very different things.

[Asker]

I don't know where he fits tbh

[HollyK21]

I guess you’ll find out as you get to know him, doesn’t sound like you’re much more than cordial at this point lol

[Asker]

No we don’t really talk a lot… I feel like I have to initiate more…. We have a lot of Things in common.. I thought we would have been cool by now… we are both from the same state, we graduated from the same college and other things. Maybe he’s not interested and that’s okay. I hope he finds the baddest female lol

[HollyK21]

People tend not to wanna do the whole coworker thing. In any case maybe he’s just not very social.

[In_Trance]

You're scared? Cone on

[Anonymous]

2 years aren't very old dont be afraid