Is it okay to tell a guy you were attracted to this?

[Anonymous]

I guess he’s not really interested and we work next door to eachother… sometimes he’s warm.. sometimes cold or shy… I can’t really read him.. he seems a tad more open to my other female coworker who looks… ehh.. I feel a bit rejected

I was going to tell him that he didn’t have to feel obligated to say anything to me the next time he says “hi”…..

[HollyK21]

Why do you think he needs to be told that he doesn’t have to talk to you? He’s a grown man he already knows there’s no obligation to say hello. However you are coworkers, who most likely see each other everyday, it is cordial to acknowledge your existence. That’s what people do. If you wanna make things awkward for him when he has no problem with you then go ahead.

[HollyK21]

But he doesn’t wanna fuck you lol, he wants nothing to do with you. Not my fault.

[spartan55]

So hostile...😂

[HollyK21]

I just roll my eyes at this point lol it’s childish💀

[Asker]

@spartan55 he gay that’s why

[spartan55]

Sure he is

[HollyK21]

At this rate every guy who isn’t interested is gay lol ridiculous.

[Asker]

They are

[Finchie40]

You do t have to tell him anything , if he isn’t into you he isn’t into you , sounds like he is more interested in your coworker instead

[Asker]

Oh okay

[spartan55]

Why would you say that to him? What is the goal? He will think you are crazy.

[Asker]

So what

[HollyK21]

We already know she’s crazy Spartan lol

[spartan55]

@asker
So you want the guy you like to think you're crazy? 😂
Again, why would you say that to him? I'm sure you won't answer though.

[HollyK21]

She wants him to want her back in general and upset he isn’t interested in creating a friendship lol. It’s like fuck off with that already, she isn’t entitled to friendship or conversation and it’s wrong to make him feel uncomfortable and guilted into building a connection.

[Anonymous]

If your interested, you should either make a move. There is no need to be so passive aggressive. It won't accomplish anything.

[Asker]

Why would I show interest in someone who isn’t interested in me.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he thinks you are out of his league or whatever. If you don't think he is shy and is just giving you the cold shoulder intentionally, move on.

[In_Trance]

What's the point?