Is it projection?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend, ex boyfriend now, always accuses me of cheating. Brings up made up stories he believes from years ago. People that I haven’t even seen in years that he believes I cheated on him with. He is a known cheater and he knows I’ve never cheated in my life. Anytime he is confronted with something he’s done wrong or caught doing anything he turns on me. He will call me a whore, tell me im addicted to attention from men and can't handle myself. I’m 6 years older than him, and never been the type of female to want attention like that at all. He justify his shady actions on Snapchat and he also acts so dumb whenever anything with another female pops up. Such as, he doesn’t know how she got added or that’s one of his siblings friends. He truly thinks all the terrible things he’s made up about me in his head. He doesn’t love me, but then why does he proclaim he doesn’t?

[AvaRay]

Yeah, it really does sound like projection.. ☹️

People who accuse others of what they themselves are guilty of are usually just reflecting their own insecurities or guilt..

Being blamed for things you haven’t done, called names, or made to feel like you’re wrong when you’re not is never okay..

It says more about him than it does about u..

At the end of the day, knowing your worth, setting boundaries, n protecting your emotional space is what matters most..

Focus on yourself n don’t let his behavior define your value.. ☺️👊🏻

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he is bipolar. He is a useless piece of trash. He's trying to flip it to you to make you look like the bad person. Even though he's doing everything wrong and he doesn't deserve you

[Abbycado]

Why are you interacting with your ex?

[Anonymous]

And why are you still with the loser?