Am I crazy for being insecure about my boyfriend looking at a painting?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I slept in a hotel the other day. In our hotel room they hung several paintings of sexy women who were half-naked and had big boobs. And I saw him looking at the paintings several times. I know it's just a painting, but I felt so anxious and insecure. I brought it up with him and he says he didn't look, that he maybe looked by accident and that he can look at the paintings in his hotel room if he wants without me overreacting. What do you think? Am I overreacting?

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9 mo

I just want do be clear that the posters was of real women and not painted women

[slatyb]

Yes, you are overreacting. No matter who you date, they will occasionally find something attractive that is not you.

[Asker]

Yeah I get that but why did he have to look at it several times when I was in the room when he knew that it made me insecure

[Anonymous]

No, you are not overreacting. Many men will just justify their porn habits by calling them “just a form of entertainment.”

You better hope it is just paintings.

[Asker]

Yeah this is not about porn but I get u

[Desi_Butcher]

But tell me, as a guy, why would those titties not get his attention?

[Asker]

I don’t know😭 maybe because it makes me insecure

[Desi_Butcher]

I can imagine your insecurity but you're taking it way more seriously. It's a man's nature to be attracted towards the assets lol. Doesn't mean he's not loyal. Plus it was a painting only afterall

[Asker]

Is it also a mans nature to be looking at the same attractive woman repeatedly?

[Desi_Butcher]

If she's really attractive, he might

[itsannalee]

You are dramatic

[jahaims]

You are mental

[qwerty2469]

Yes. Absolutely.

[Asker]

So you think I am crazy?😭

[qwerty2469]

Yes. Also insecure overbearing and insufferable