Everytime I try to tell my SO how I feel about things he call me a childish little girl. Im 24 & he's 29 by the way. Why he keep calling me that?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Because to him, his reality is that he really does probably feel you are. We process things different than women. I’m not trying to downplay women’s feelings but I work w a lot Mormon in the medical field. I can’t tell you how many times I hear women crying over, what to me are little things. For is fence this one girl was upset that the other women were getting together outside of work to have lunch, but they never invited her, so her feelings were hurt. To a lot of men we would t care, we’d just continue doing what we need to do. I’m not saying there aren’t some men who aren’t like that. I’ve seen a few, but a lot of the times those “men” are feminine. You have to be delicate w women as it is. Especially if they ask about their weight, or want honesty about something. A lot of women get hurt by honesty. Not all, but a lot. What sort of things have you expressed your feelings about that he has said you’re acting childish? You have to understand that men don’t think the same in most cases. Women tend to think they’re right because they “communicate better.” But imagine if men acted the same way most women do, reacted the way a lot of women do. You’d probably be turned off by it. Men are usually taught to be strong, not try, protect women, maybe even die for her. We’re not raised like women. So for you to expect him to process all this stuff the way you expect it is like asking you to stop being “childish” as he says n expecting you to act the way he does in situations. For me I can sympathize as well as empathize w women on some things. But in my experience it just seemed as though a lot of the things the women I’ve been w or known in my life were crying over simple little things. It’s like an again now what’s wrong. The sky is falling? So if you’re like that w your man yes it can get overwhelming.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Because he has no emotional processing ability. Dump the bitch

[slatyb]

Why are you still seeing him?