I confessed my feelings to him, and he said, u know I really like u but after that, he didn’t do anything, what does that mean?

[Anonymous]

We’ve known each other for almost two years. We used to live in the same city, but I moved to another country about a year ago. We still talk every day on social media. Recently, I confessed my feelings for him, and he replied by saying, “I really like you,” but then he didn’t do anything about it, he just went back to our usual conversations. I’m really interested in him, but I’m confused. What does this mean?

[DemonTime]

It means it's one-sided, you took the first bold step, and he didn't take action, also it wouldn't work, guys I know who do exactly this to other women who are from another state and are in a long distant relationships usually end up getting played with, the men will cheat on you because they need to fuck how do you expect him to sit around waiting until your next meet up, do you know how many ran through birds are in the club and out partying who will tempt him with lust, not possible, A childhood friend of mine (FEMALE) is in a long distant relationship, she comes to the state to get taken to pown town by the man thinking it's love since he spoils her with luxury dates, years later, no ring, no kids, dude just stringing her along, save yourself from the bad experince I could have help her pivot but she moved where we lived when we were young and reconnected for a bit when she visited the state, she never drank, never had piercings, din't have a tattoo, din't have a daddy all the green flags for a man who wants to take advantage of a women we men know what to look for in a women for a one night stand.

[Mariogirl09]

If she is such a good woman, then why is she being used for sex?

[Asker]

Thanks I didn’t realize how much I needed to hear that.🙏🏼

[SueShe]

He likes you but does not love you enough to act on his words.

The problem is that you live apart and long distance relationships never ever work. Talking on social media is good but not enough for a long term relationship. Mainly in your age group, men need more than just words. They need to take care of their testosterone levels, which is something he cannot do with you since you live so far apart.

He may like you but he does not want to go a step further by fear to hurt himself and you, should this long term relationship not work. He prefers to keep his distance for his own sake.

[Asker]

Thank you i, i needed to hear that 🙏🏼❤️

[SueShe]

You are welcome. Good luck.

[Amy_Mi]

Words without aligned action reveal more than speech alone.

Saying he “likes you” but showing no effort signals inconsistency or a lack of genuine priority.

Intent is measured by attention, curiosity, and consistent follow-through, not statements.

If he isn’t investing energy, it’s a choice he’s making, and your clarity comes from observing patterns, not hoping for change.

[Asker]

Thank you i, i needed to hear that 🙏🏼❤️

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It means nothing. He doesn’t like you enough to do anything about it

[Asker]

Thank you, i needed to hear that 🙏🏼❤️

[butterly248]

He likes u but I doubt it will go further

[Asker]

Thank you 🙏🏼❤️