Why is it hard to find a relationship with a guy who's ok with me remaining a virgin til marriage?

[Anpernam]

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

This is what is seriously wrong with some men. They claim they want a virgin when getting married (there are some from prominent ones on this site who claim it as their mantra), but are also the same ones who pressure women into having sex before marriage therefore ruining what they are asking for.

Those kinds of men only want to be the first to "claim" a woman as if that makes them special. They don't care about us, just that initial claim. Selfish pricks they are.

That's not to say that finding a guy who respects your wishes isn't out there. They are just harder to find. It's harder though because a lot of guys need instant gratification to be happy. They see a problem and want to instantly fix it without nuance or emotions being involved. This would include their sexual needs.

[bowenw]

Some guys are players and are only looking for sex with as many women as possible in a short time. If you meet a guy that is serious about you he should not mind waiting.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[BadApple69]

A 33 year old virgin?
That’s a bit hard to believe.

[Anpernam]

How?

[BadApple69]

I’m not saying it’s not possible but normally you don’t see 33 year old girls being virgins.

[BadApple69]

And yes… guys won’t want to wait. They’ve been out there having sex and now you are saying no…. Wait! They won’t want to stop what they have been doing

[exitseven]

I was with somebody like that for 4 years. I will never get those years back.

[Anonymous]

It's even harder for me to find a girl who would want to be with me, considering I'm over 40 years old virgin.

[Anpernam]

Really?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, really... unfortunately.

[Anpernam]

But why I think this is nice. You don't resort to sleep with just anybody that's respectable. Those women who don't understand are immature and whores

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for understanding, I guess you're right, many of them are immature.

[spartan55]

Lol.. you're joking, right?

[Summeroflove]

Most people don’t have that type of self control

[Abbycado]

Because it is not the norm.

[Anonymous]

A virgin at 33? Hard to believe that.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Try the churches

[roy_ricky09]

It's not