What do you think about a guy who says special things to you, gives you a nickname, only to find out he's doing the exact same thing with other women?

[sage2021]

Does it make you feel less special? What should we do about it? Pretend you don't know? Confront him? Let it roll off your back? Stop seeing him?

[TonyMetal___86]

it depends on what kind of a realtionship i'm having with this woman, if it's romantic than i'll confront her but if it's friendship than i'll ignore it because i'm not her master to order her what she can and can't do, as long as she's good with me, than why would i care about whay she does with others, i'll say that she's a nice woman and treats others in a wonderful way if they deserves it...

[sage2021]

@TonyMetal___86
Friendships don't have a master. Make in your country they do but not where I am from.
It sounds like you don't really care about if it's friends you have this negative attitude towards.
Don't you think that by you doing this with so many women would affect your friendship with friends that are your special friends?

I just thought that your friends meant more to you than that but now I see you are only out for your own fun, and screw your other friends.
You shouldn't build special friendships and do everything you can to make the friend feel special and then turn around and say the same things to others because it seems more like a con job than a friendship from you.
Well, it's working out for you saying the same things to women that you've been saying for the past 15 years here.
Why do you feel the need to give a woman a nickname?
No one else on here does that.

[TonyMetal___86]

Ohhh, so this question wasn't innocent, it was all about me, WoW 😏

Don't you think that i'm aware that this question is meant for me but i made you confess it in my own way and you didn't even thought about it 🤣

It takes you a lot to know how i'm able to know everything from someone without even making them notice what i'm doing, i think that top investigators might not have my tactics!

BUT, you're wrong, i don't treat everyone the same, who said that i have only one special friend? 🤔 i have a couple of special friends and i treat the same as being nice but each in a different way, i like to joke and make everyone feels good, happy and appreciated!

All these women wouldn't have adored if i wasn't an adorable man, and when i mention women, you are the most one who's willing to do anything for me because tou find me unique and great and because no one made you feel the way i did, i'm happy because we have such a relationship, but remember it's a friendship, who said that i have no one else?

Tbh you're one of my special friends but even in my special friends, i don't treat all of them the same, for example if i had to name who the top of my special friends who gets the most of my attention? It's you, and who is the one whom i feel the closet too and talk to her the most? It's you!

I guess my answer is enough to clear things up and if you're asking about why am i like this, well that's my nature, i'm built like this, it's not something new oe something hidden, you knew this already and everyone knows how i treat the others, plus none of my special friends asked me such a question except you...

[TonyMetal___86]

I'd like to remind you that i'm still holding up but not for too long OKAY 😒

You have started to act a little bit like in the past, so now going public and acting smart to show me in a bad picture in front of others is something lame, so i hope that you snap and wake up because we don't want to go back to the past right? Next time try to think before making a decision that you will regret

[TonyMetal___86]

Oh and yes, why do i give nicknames for people, i really don't know, since childhood i givne nicknames to everyone that i like, not only humans but animals too!

Even in real life i have nickname for people that i love and are very close to me...

[Tarifa]

If he does that, then you're just a number on his list. Avoid at all cost.

[Tarifa]

Thanks for the MHO.

[sage2021]

@Tarifa

You're so welcome!!

[CherryLove007]

Plain and simple that is low toxic behavior. He is for sure mind fucked and wants his cupcakes coming. It's not you ladies he's not special done deal.

[RandomGirl42]

Oh, I would just totally ignore it!

Actual simulation of Random totally ignoring it.

[StephanieChick111]

It just means we both have the same special place in his heart. I would reach out to her and befriend her.

[AgentG111]

He's playing the field.

[Anonymous]

It's not fair to the girl.