Guy started ignoring and pretending. Why?

[Anonymous]

Met a guy at bachlor party, when we were alone he asked for a date, and kissed me, I kissed back consenting to the date. He turned really desperate. I told him to slow down, I like to keep things slow and I don't go below the belt so soon. I'm not into one night stands or casual. Inspite of that he kept convincing and trying to turn me on. We decided on doing the next day. But next day at the wedding he acted like nothing happened and started avoiding me and even started courting some other girl, giving his coat to her and everything right infront of me.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

He wanted something fast, you set a boundary, and he realized he wasn’t going to get what he came for.

So he did what a lot of impulsive men do when they’re disappointed, he switched targets and pretended nothing happened to avoid looking rejected.

It’s not about you.

It’s about his ego and the fact that he was chasing attention, not connection.

Honestly, you dodged a headache.

[Asker]

Right infront of me. And then casually asking me normal things like can you do skin care etc, pass me ciggerate since we are all in group. I think it's pure evil

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Yeah, that kind of behavior isn’t accidental, it’s meant to provoke a reaction or make himself feel superior.

Someone who jumps to another girl in front of you and then acts normal right after isn’t confused, he’s inconsiderate.

You’re right to call it out for what it is.

People like that aren’t worth your emotional energy.

[beenherebefore]

I believe he did you a favor. He just wanted to get in your pants. You should never do stuff you don’t want to and stick to your boundaries.

[Anonymous]

He was a jerk trying to get laid at a bachelor party. Consider yourself lucky and stay away from him.

[Asker]

So I did right denying him to go below the belt?

[Opinion Owner]

Obviously. I would have kneed him in the groin for feeling up a woman he doesn't know.

[Asker]

He knows me since cllg. But ofc you are right too. I just don't understand why disguise the beginning by asking me out on a date

[Sebastian100]

He's not into you now. He's just looking fir sex after all

[Sebastian100]

for*

[Asker]

From the other girl as well?

[Sebastian100]

Yes.

[Sebastian100]

If you had hooked up with him that night you would've regretted doing it seeing him behave like this the next day

[Asker]

I refused to go below the belt. Cuz I don't do one night stands. So we didn't have sex. It's unhygienic. He even commented that you are giving me blue balls

[Sebastian100]

Haha

[Asker]

Did I do the right thing?

[Sebastian100]

What do you think?

[Asker]

I find it unhygienic. I believe I did right. But I want to know a real man's perspective

[Sebastian100]

You did the right thing. Wanna chat?

[Asker]

Sure

[Sebastian100]

Message me

[spartan55]

Because you didn't put out.