Would a male coworker invite a girl to the movies alone if he's not interested?

[7barbieringz]

I just started there and first a couple of weeks ago him and the their new hire girl we're going to go to the gym and a restaurant after and they were going to be alone, but then he randomly invited me to the restaurant after and I could tell she wasn't aware when he mentioned it. She then bailed and he invited his friends who are also our coworkers but they're a couple, and at restaurant he paid for my food.

Then he invited me to go see a movie that he had already seen but he wanted me to see it so we went alone.

Last thing he likes my first trap on tiktok but I could tell he had already viewed it before like a few days before without liking it, and then he went back to my profile and liked it after we went to the movie.

Updates

6 mo

The other new hire girl* two of us started at the same time

[In_Trance]

If he's inviting you he definitely wants to smash

[7barbieringz]

Lmao thanks😂

[DreamCrescent]

well i mean he was interested in the first girl until she bailed. i would proceed with caution

[7barbieringz]

@DreamCrescent I feel you, that would have been their second time going to the gym (he works out usually and invites anyone really). He invited me to the restaurant after the gym before he told her so it would have been us 3 before she bailed. Tbh i was shocked when he invited me

[bowenw]

It sounds like he is interested.

[7barbieringz]

Thanks for the insight! I forgot to add he's called me a heartbreaker and gave me a nickname (thats sooo cute)

[bowenw]

It does sound like he is interested in you especially if he doesn't do those kind of things with any other girls at work.

[7barbieringz]

Well I haven't seen him invite another girl to a movie usually it's a group thing or a work thing if they're alone. And I haven't heard him call anyone else a nickname but I'm not sure.

[bowenw]

I suggest keeping an eye on him so you can see if he is nice to everyone or if he is giving you special attention. I have a feeling it is just you from what you have described.

[7barbieringz]

Thanks! I work tomorrow so we'll see how he acts in person lol

[bowenw]

Sounds good. Please feel free to let me know what happens.

[7barbieringz]

He just randomly texted me a pic of merch he bought lol

[bowenw]

You must be on his mind.

[7barbieringz]

He called out today... i feel weird

[bowenw]

Why do you feel weird because of that?

[7barbieringz]

I don't know im probably overthinking it. But i assumed he was avoiding me (he probably isn't) but he also viewed my profile again

[bowenw]

Hopefully he's not avoiding you. Have you tried texting him today?

[7barbieringz]

Well update i sent him a Tiktok video ans he replied "had to call out today" and i replied "i see are you ok" and no reply after that

[bowenw]

Hopefully he will. If he isn't really sick, he may not want anyone to know.

[7barbieringz]

Ya maybe but he knows i wouldn't snitch lol I don't know what do u think about him telling me that he called out? As if I didn't already notice lol

[bowenw]

My guess is he told you that so you would ask why.

[7barbieringz]

He cracked a tooth he told me

[bowenw]

Have you been messaging him all day?

[7barbieringz]

Well no, just a few messages he replied in the evening.. but we do have a 5 day streak of messages on tiktok

Also ok this might be a little far-fetched.. but he's rather new to tiktock. He liked two of my reposted videos about the movie we saw together, and then his first repost only 2 hours ago was about that movie. I'll just tell you it was a new chainsaw man movie, you know the one that was kind of tragically romantic yet still had great anime fights

[bowenw]

I don't know the movie, but it seems like he enjoyed it and likes interacting with you on Tiktok. If you like him, I suggest asking him if he wants to go to another movie or do something else you would both enjoy.

[7barbieringz]

Well were going to see the new wicked with a group of people in a few days. And with people, camping in January if i can get off hopefully

[bowenw]

That sounds good. Hopefully he will want to do something with just you too.

[7barbieringz]

Lol maybe unless he doesn't see me like that

[bowenw]

Try dropping some hints.

[bowenw]

Like asking him what he's doing this weekend.

[7barbieringz]

Well were supposed to see the wicked movie this weekend with a group of people, but I don't know if he's gonna go cuz of his tooth.

In that case ill ask him if he wants to go again with just me like we did before

Also he sent me a Tiktok first thing this morning lol

[bowenw]

That all sounds very encouraging. When will you know if the group going to the new Wicked movie is a go?

[7barbieringz]

Its already confirmed lol its my plans and i invited a lot of people BUT Im sitting next to him (unless he moves seats)

Also he left me on read all day.. but im assuming its cuz he's in pain lol we had a little back and forth earlier in messaging and he went quiet after

[7barbieringz]

Also he liked TWO of my repost about chainsaw man (the movie we saw) and his very very first repost was chainsaw man (he only made a Tiktok cuz i asked him to by the way)

[bowenw]

That is good you will get to sit beside him at the movies. If he moves seats that will be a possible sign that he doesn't like you the way you think he does, but they way you are describing things, it seems like he is into you. Hopefully he doesn't leave you on read for too much longer.

[7barbieringz]

Lmao he actually just replied saying he's trying to avoid spoilers

[bowenw]

You could tell him in that case he should just talk to you tonight and he won't have to worry about spoilers.

[7barbieringz]

Lol thats wayyy to flirty

[bowenw]

Lol. Sometimes a little flirting is required so the other person knows you are interested, but you know what's best for your situation.

[7barbieringz]

Lol i don't want to be obvious but he did say he's invested in it, the movie I mean lol

[bowenw]

I think just keeping him engaged is going to be enough to keep him interested.
Please feel free to DM if you wish.

[7barbieringz]

I dm'ed you!

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[jahaims]

He is into you or wants to fuck

[7barbieringz]

He called out today.. and it looks like he randomly planned it cuz someone is covering his shift... im a bit lost now tbh

[beefcakebradybatson]

He wants to club her.

[7barbieringz]

It says you're 72 lol what does club her mean?

[beefcakebradybatson]

Give her what in my case would be my #blackboyjoy. In short, bedding the broad.