Guys, Should I ask my co-worker to a movie?

[Anonymous]

So I have this coworker we have been friends for awhile now we hang out after work sometimes and go to lunch together. I think I am starting to have feeling for him but he might only want to be friends. I want to ask him to go to a movie this weekend mostly because I want to hangout with him and I also I really want to see this movie and have no one to go with. Should I keep it friendly and ask him to ask his friend to come along or should I invite only him? This could also be a bad idea and maybe I should just not ask. Let me know your thoughts please?

[hellionthesagereborn]

I would say invite him without mentioning brining some one else and tell him you want to see it but you don't like going to movies by yourself if he asks (I'm that way, its weird to see it alone). That way you can be around him more and give him a subtle hint that your interested without being to open about it (though I would say its best to just say it but obviously if that isn't something you can do this would be the next best thing). If he offers to bring some one he probably is either oblivious or not interested (probably not interested but some guys are pretty oblivious to subtle hints (I personally am)) if he doesn't then he might be interested and that could open the door for you to spend more time with him and make it acceptable to ask him to do things with you outside of work later.

[A-kay]

Sure you can, tell me something can you loose something that doesn’t belong to you?
You’re asking for a movie okay and I guess it’s nothing big, it’s like asking him for a lunch. And if you are worried then for a backup just tell him if there’s anyone else who would like to join?
Outside your work is your personal life so it’s nothing like you’re gonna be fired.
Get out of your head, cause All I can see is there are more advantages of what could go right rather than disadvantages (what could go wrong).

[tjkyle316197]

Exploring where it can go from here does not guarantee it'll diminish the established bond. If you go for it I would suggest the insinuation you may be pursuing more by aspiring to ask him to a dinner as well. Even if he expresses that he's not interested afterwards, the flattery put in place by your brazen attempt virtually guarantees a great night either way as you'll strengthen a bond you've already found excitement and enthrallment in.

[Derick529]

You won't know how he feels if you ask him out and/or seen signs of attraction. It unlikely that he would turn that invitation down since you're already friends.

Try asking only him, base on his response/reaction (if it goes south) then you can mention to bring his friend along.

Hope this helps.

[slatyb]

Go ahead and ask him. Don’t invite anyone else. If he agrees then he’s interested. The downside to dating colleagues is that you have to keep seeing them after a breakup.

[MrKinktastic]

Don’t stick your clit where you eat. I highly suggest not dating coworkers because of how awkward things are if you break up/the date doesn’t work out or he just says no.

[MrCommodore]

Yes, ask him out, I think you probably have some gut feeling that he likes you, but just aren't 100% sure yet.

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with that, but I can tell you this that it will NOT go the way you want to go. He will most likely reject you and put you in the friendzone, mainly because of you two are co-workers. It will be kinda awkward. Especially if you two broke-up. Again you can, but you will be rejected flat-out.

Have Fun

[bulletbob555]

Go for it. You've went out before so its not like you have to talk and get to know each other. Reason for saying that its not good idea for a movie for a first date. Can sit close in the dark maybe try holding his hand at some point.

[Zweihander]

I don't see why it would be a bad thing. Just tell him you wanna see the movie with him. It doesn't have to be a date or anything

[DOGMA1954]

Ask him to the movies and see what happens, but keep it casual and enjoy yourself.

[Laozi]

Yup. Just tell him that you want to see movie with him. He won't mind.