Guys, Just a friendly coworker?

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He says we can't date cause we work together, which I was fine with. However I feel like his words and his actions are at odds. He always helps me out at work (I'm new-ish). Literally every assignment I have gotten in the past few months, he has checked on me and helped me. He helps me even outside work. He always keeps in touch, always tells me where he is and what he's doing. He complains about certain aspects of our 'relationship' like if I only talk to him about work or if I ask him to hangout and he's busy then I do what I had asked about on my own, like maybe going for a movie. He wants to be the one to plan hangouts, which he rarely does unless I stress him about it, but when he does, he'll take me to a really nice place. I'm confused. Is he just my coworker? Should I cut him off since he's throwing mixed signals? Should I hang in there? Help!

Guys, Just a friendly coworker?
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