Attractive female coworker?

[sjim508]

So I just started a new job, I'm 2 months in already. I'm starting to ask questions regarding this female coworker. I'm a guy and don't want to misunderstand anything. She buys me coffee and lunch like every day. Yes, I know it can just be a friendly gesture, but it is the way she also places her hands on my and the location where she puts her hands. She told me everything was going on with her including her own relationship problems, and tells me things she does not even tell her other coworkers. Do I like her yes, I think naughty and nice yes I do lmfao. Yes yes I know I should be working not thinking of this, but you know what, I am human so I should. We also text and talk on the phone a lot. A few days ago she just sent me a Facebook request. I kinda feel I'm falling in some type of trap or a warning signal about to go off🤣🤣. But it can be just a friendly gesture all this, or I am just over thinking all this, or maybe not.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you're picking up on some mixed signals, which can be confusing. It's important to consider your own feelings and boundaries in this situation. Have you considered having an open and honest conversation with her about your thoughts and feelings? This could help clarify things and ensure that you're both on the same page. Additionally, setting clear boundaries can help maintain a professional relationship while still being friendly.

[sjim508]

I'm planning on asking her.

[handsomelad70]

OK, but be careful, it's a work setting, boyo.

[Keyboardkat]

I always HATED it when girls gave me mixed signals. I mean, my internal hard drive crashes when fed conflicting information! If she's confused, then of course, you're gonna be confused. You need to have an open honest talk with her about this.

[Billlewis]

Ask her out for a date, and you'll likely have a much better idea of what her intentions are.

[sjim508]

Haha, this is very true 😂.

[Billlewis]

Yes, Sir. I just started following you, and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well, if you want.

[sjim508]

Sounds great.