How does he feel about me now?

[Anonymous]

I have a guy friend who once liked me and wanted a future with me but kinda kept me at arms length whenever I tried to get close. we had a falling out... now Im back and now he invites me over, he's more affectionate and he seems to let his hair down and is more open this time around... he still tries to solve my problems for me or find a solution at least... he tells me he wants to be friend but will kiss me, give me oral pleasure even when I dont return the favor, is fine with us sharing eating utensils, and is there for me when Im feeling down... is he hiding his feelings because he isn't where he wants to be in life? he tells me what I deserve, says im beautiful, and says he's attracted to me and compliments my personality... even calls me "young lady" I guess as a term of endearment... why is he so open now?

[rebelsunshine]

It's hard to guess how he might feel without knowing more about him. Has he dated other girls since you had your falling out w/him?

[Asker]

i dont think so

[NakedFunNsun]

He has grown and sees you differently. The question is do you want him?

If you do, you have to remember he is a guy and that means you need to be very clear in your communications with him on what you want.

[Nikki1989]

If he values you, he will either step up or respect the distance. If he only valued the benefits, he will disappear.

[Anonymous]

Why would you think we can read minds?

[Asker]

im asking from a mans perspective hence the title of the website. you're a chick so keep it pushing

[Iron_Man]

Talk to the man find out