When someone says in the tone and phrase “remember we talked about this before is it being little bossy ish?

[Olgaa334]

[MisterPandemonium]

Depends on the tone.

Like he could be reminding you of a fond memory.

Or he could be upbraiding you for not remembering what he already told you.

[Olgaa334]

Yeaa sure!

[bowenw]

I would say so in most cases.

[Olgaa334]

Why they do that

[bowenw]

It could be to remind someone that they should obey.

[Olgaa334]

Yea the tone he used

[bowenw]

For me it's usually been a parent or teacher that says that kind of thing. I've also heard a husband say that to his wife, which I thought was very inappropriate.

[Olgaa334]

I don't know what’s his problem

[bowenw]

Who said it to you?

[Olgaa334]

A guy coworker

[bowenw]

That seems kind of rude coming from a coworker.

[Sebastian100]

Depends on the topic and situation

[Olgaa334]

I was having bad day and the dude goes “remember we talked about this before …

[Sebastian100]

I guess you've been complaining a lot in a while?

[Olgaa334]

Noo he kept bringing up how his glad to see me in a positive attitude and supposedly I was having bad day this time

[Olgaa334]

He was like remember we talked about you having a positive attitude and the way it kinda sounded I didn’t even reply back to him

[Sebastian100]

It means he didn't want to know about your day and didn't care how you felt.

[Olgaa334]

Well. I he saw I was not having it and mentioned how he talked about me being positive bc he complimented me few times on being positive I don't know

[Olgaa334]

I don't know what’s his problem anyways

[Sebastian100]

He was just reminding you to be positive cause he wanted to spend time with you and enjoy it

[Olgaa334]

I don't know 🤷‍♀️

[Sebastian100]

🤷🏻

[roy_ricky09]

Not necessarily