Why can't I look at him the same?

[Anonymous]

I had conversation with a coworker today. He said some things that don't quiet bother me but are currently living rent free in my head. I get boys talk but...

What was said.

There was a comment about my chest being large. Yes. They are. I know, you know, what is that the topic at hand when I'm at the other side of the building? It's also nothing new. The "issue" for me is the person who said it is severally married. And said it another married person. One male, one female.

This same female apparently has been asking male coworkers if they'd f**k me. I'll admit, I'm curious, but again why is that the topic?

I also kinda wanna know who said what do I know who to steer clear off. Guess I'm just venting...

But I was speaking to the one who made the boob comment, he doesn't know that I know. I kinda look at him weird now.

[Anonymous]

I think you need to give more context. How much do you actually know about what was word-for-word said?

If this woman was going around asking men in the office if they would fuck you, then maybe this man got trapped in a conversation he didn't want to be in.

The conversation might have gone something like this:

HER: "So-and-so's breasts are huge, aren't they?"

HIM: "Umm... well... yeah, I guess."

HER: "What do you mean you guess? They're gigantic! They're the size of her head!"

HIM: "..."

HER: "I bet you'd like to stab her with your man-meat, wouldn't you?"

HIM: "Umm... anyway, I gotta go."

[DryGermanGuy]

You obviously did not expect him to be part of a trashy office gossip circle. 🤷‍♂️