What to do when you like a guy but he seems shy?

[Anonymous]

I like one guy and he seems shy so i dont know if he will approach me. I think he could be interested in me as well, i caught him stare at me and once when he was tipsy a bit he spent a lot of time talking to me. What to do?

[Alex-Snow]

Some great guys are like that. Maybe he is new to dating/relationships or sex. Start slowly by asking him some questions about something. Compliment him on something while making eye contact. Maybe follow him on socials? And as u know it is ok to ask him out... maybe start on a mellow date like going for a walk or a cup of coffee. How old is he?

[Hellraiser1984]

Just talk to him nicely without judgement. He may be like me. Had a lot of bad crap happen to him. Maybe some bad relationships. He may be guarding himself from getting hurt again. I'm shy because of all the abuse I've been through. I don't want to get hurt every again. But in my case I'll never trust a woman ever again.

[Unycorn]

You do the first step and always offer an alternative

[DryGermanGuy]

Do the bend and snap for him:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/MqUQQPz9vFo

[spartan55]

Staring at you and talking to you once is really reaching to think he is interested.

[Anonymous]

well its another reminder that im sure for all time, women will be stubborn and adamant in their refusal to make a move on a guy they like

[WhitneySnow]

Make the first move and approach him

[RedTiefling]

You are brave

[WhitneySnow]

@RedTiefling not really lol. I’ve met had to do it except once on Flower Day at school (send a rose to someone you like). But it worked for me, and it’ll probably work for her too.

Love your screen name! Tieflings are cool.

[RedTiefling]

Give yourself credit where credit is due, many ladies would rather sit and wait. You shoot your shot, that's respectable.

Tieflings are cool, thank you 😈

[Nikki1989]

No man is worth that much work.

[UknoWhatwatiwatt]

Worth what? Giving a shit? Generally showing him you care?

[Anonymous]

Be very direct with him.

[jahaims]

You talk to him...