Someone please help me figuring out things. Do guys ask serious question for no reason?

[Anonymous]

We never met before. And we have been talking online. We start with few jokes, to which he then suddenly ask serious question. Like, what do you need in relationship, what you value in a person, all of those things. The topics has been going on for about nearly 2weeks. Then i ask him, when he asked such questions, is it because he just wanna know the person in general or he had an intentional plan in the future. To which, he ignore that question, and he ask another question..

Now im confused

[slatyb]

No one does anything for no reason. Sometimes the reasons are pretty silly, but there's always some motivation. Why are you spending time on this conversation? What are you getting out of it? What's your goal -- interesting chat, or a relationship?

[Asker]

For sure relationship..
And the topic we have been discussing is also related to relationship. Thats why im lost when i ask that question, he avoid answering

[slatyb]

He's not interested in a relationship. He may already be in a relationship with someone else. Stop wasting your time and date someone available.

[spartan55]

Don't ask a guy why he asks questions. You will never get an answer you're satisfied with because we don't think that deep (usually)

Tap the brakes ffs you haven't even met.

[Asker]

I dont even put any pressure, cuz he said he likes to communicate such things. And i dont wanna waste my time too much if we didn't align🤷🏻‍♀️ but hey, i didn't even ask him again when he ignored it, i just pretend i didn't ask anything and go along with him

[spartan55]

You won't know if you are 'wasting your time' until you meet in person and spend time together, which is very likely not happening.

[spartan55]

He ignored because he didn't know how to answer... we don't go that deep.