Why do guys still wonder?

[Ur1local2bisexual]

Watch the video to understand https://youtube.com/shorts/4KqxM22ugss?feature=shared

[inhua]

there's a simple explanation to this

you're listening to 2 different groups of guys. the fuckboys/male feminists who only want sex and the future husbands/fathers who want a loving wife to start a family

plus some of these messages are coming from modern feminists who only care about self-destruction and sticking it up to the "patriarchy"

even then all of that is small fry compared to the shit men have to go through. besides ridicule and mockery, men actually get ostracized, demonized, get falsely accused of crimes and thrown behind bars for not adhering to the "unwritten rules" of society

I could go through an entire list but the main one which women will never have to worry about is expressing their issues to the public

when men keep their problems to themselves, they're toxic for bottling up their feelings and emotions but when men do point out their problems i. e. court injustices, victims of abuse, homelessness, war and famine disposability, suicide rates etc. suddenly they're whiny, loser, incel, crybabies, misogynists etc.

to insinuate that men don't understand women's insecurities is asinine. empathy towards gender issues has historically been so one-sided that one gender has transformed the entire world to become more comfortable for the other gender at their own expense

really the main difference is, women are allowed to have insecurities. men are not

[BoopBoopBeep]

If we say hello to you we're a creep, if we don't we're misogynists. If we're not as musclebound as the video game and movie characters who have unrealistic proportions then we're not attractive, but if we spend too much time in the gym we're narcissists. If we don't make at least six figures we're not successful, but if we work more and harder so we can get there, we're too self absorbed in our work and not dating material

[inhua]

you forgot to add

if we sacrifice our lives for people who despise us, we're real men. but if we don't, we're just pussies

if we keep our problems to ourselves, we're toxic. but if we don't, we're whiny crybabies

if we have boundaries, we're controlling. but if we don't, we're doormats to be walked all over

[BoopBoopBeep]

@inhua yep good points

[Nikki1989]

Men are spoon-fed so much bad information and advice these days, that they don't know what to do anymore.

[artgorgeous]

No man says that. It's the feminists who talk this shit. Divide and conquer.

[bowenw]

It's sad that people believe they need to judge others.