Do you get shyer, or do you get more confident when you talk to a girl you like? What are the reasons why you get shy/ more confident approaching?

[Anonymous]

Do you get shyer, or do you get more confident when you talk to a girl you like?

What are the reasons why you get shy/ more confident approaching a girl you like? Drop your thoughts below. 👇

[Summeroflove]

This is a really good question because it’s different for everyone. For me personally I do get a bit more shy. But some people do act out and many times it’s because they’re nervous but want to impress so they overcompensate. Some people also may feel more excited.

People become more shy because they’re nervous. Nervous of what will happen if someone finds out they are attracted. Nervous about rejection. They also care what that person thinks…. But some people do act out. It’s a way of over compensating to hide it.

[spartan55]

It's 'more shy'.

[OneViewpoint]

Neither. My personality doesn't change based on the person I'm talking to. I don't shift my speech patterns or edit my opinions to suck up to anyone. I don't get nervous talking to new people or a woman I'm attracted to. I'll be polite and friendly unless they give me a reason to act otherwise. But I will challenge opinions and ideas I don't agree with no matter who I'm talking to. If they end up not liking me because of that well, I just found out what I needed to know about them.

[DishLady]

Some guys are absolutely fine but then suddenly trip over their own words around a gal they like. Some get visually distracted and have to be reminded what they were talking about.

It's not necessarily them being SHY so much as suddenly distracted and trying to control a thought or urge they're having.

[serious]

Well, I never liked a woman because I have my type and my standards are strict both in physical and personality aspects so I have never come across whom I have liked. I have never faced this situation.

[Purpleronnie]

I don’t think I come across any differently given that I’m not that young awkward hormonal teenager anymore 😂😂.


If anything I’m more attentive to those I “like”

[Anonymous]

I get a lot more shy when I like a girl, and it gets worse the more I like her. I want to talk to her, but I cannot. These feelings have been due to how much I like her, my inexperience, and the current situation I'm in.

[Joshydavid25]

It would really depend on how she responds and reacts to me.. But that's for everyone I interact with..

[Nikki1989]

No, I tend to be very forward with everyone I meet.

[genericname85]

these days, honestly, i don't give a shit. cause the outcome is always the same anyway. it's whatever.

[NerdGuy89]

Thats my secret, I dont like anyone anymore. Women have shown me Im worthless, so fuck them. I treat most women like women have treated me

[butterly248]

It depends what mood I'm in tbh

[Alex-Snow]

More confident and more comfortable with a convo

[jahaims]

Neither. I act the same