Is he into me or am I overthinking?

[bobalife]

I’m just curious. I remember during Orientation Week, one of the managers who was training would always put me on the spotlight for my educational answers and insights. People don’t realize I get shy with too attention, so I playfully say something along the line of how he keeps choosing me. He randomly blurted out he would choose his “wife,” which I thought was such a random comment. I just act normal lol. I had wonder if that’s a boundary reminder for himself.

During the first week transitioning into my role, I was on the cpu doing some mandated online training. The manager came in and was making silly remarks with my co-worker because he’s a goofy and funny person. I didn’t engaged in their conversation, but all I did was giggle. I heard he made a comment to my co-worker that I was laughing and he started laughing as well. It felt like he was mirroring my behavior. He does that time to time whenever I’m giggling rather I’m engaging with him or just listening on his conversations with others where he made funny remarks.

Sometimes, I would walk with the Lead or other co-worker and say hi to him. I would be surprise that he’s just starring at me even though there’s someone else next to me talking to him as well. But the thing is he’s usually wearing a facemask. He also gives me this lingering look at times.

I haven’t seen him much lately, but this morning I ran into him when I walked through the entrance door… he opened the door for me and to follow after him as he already stepped inside before he noticed I was behind him. While he hold the door for me… because he didn’t wear a facemask… I finally saw his facial expression and his eyes on me as I passed by… it struck me and made me remember those same vibes he gave me from the beginning… it made me feel like he’s attracted to me. But I’m also wondering if I’m just overthinking it?

[ohsheeT]

I think that no matter what you're doing that you're conscious of it, and you can think about things in many different ways. And that doesn't make you overthink

It makes you wise and knowledgeable because you're paying attention

So when this happens and you can do it in such detail , you start to feel that person's energy and once you can start feeling energy from people that changes everything , because it also means that you're carrying person and that you see and you feel things deeper than most , which takes it to another level

So, it doesn't really matter what happens around. You are with you , you're always going to be thinking. That's just because that's who you are. That is a part of you that makes you. You also is a protective part of you to know how to do this, in case of anything that's happening. That's bad around you

So\n It's a gift that you have in one way. It's the most beautiful gift ever and another way is kind of cursed, because

With each thought there's an emotion

Because which each thought there is knowledge there's a feeling

And this is the curse of it, because you're so detailed\n But in the detail, it doesn't give you the answer, it just gives you emotion the energy, the vibe, it's up to you, understand and pick the right answer for you.

I would like to know if you have a. M. A capital M in the center of each one of your palms. And that would tell me everything.

[bobalife]

Wow…!!! This was such a beautiful well written message, I really appreciate your wisdom and humble thoughts!!! 🥹🥲🩷

Absolutely, you got me 100%! I just like to say “overthinker” casually at times because that’s what some people may misjudged it as or not fully comprehend that I am actually just a very observant, articulate, sharp, and empathetic person. I definitely feel a lot easily; therefore, I agreed it’s a gift and cursed at the same time. Thank you for putting a name to it in such a positive and beautiful way as a “gift” though :)

Sorry how do I read my palm with the letters? Lol.

[ohsheeT]

Well i can tell exactly who you are just by your questions and your answers your beautiful person with a beautiful heart. You care, you see, and you feel things deeper than most when you do this.. sometimes you don't come out and say exactly what you would think that you might say. And then people think that they can walk on you because of what you said, but you're a very strong independent good person, and you have to understand don't worry about what other people think you're here for a reason on this planet. And it's a deep deeper , it's a good reason and\nWhen somebody is with you and no matter what capacity they will fall deeply in love with you. Because of who you are and what you're all about , your touch , your kiss , the way you think the energy that comes from you without even trying

You know , when to say something and you know when to be quiet
You know , the moment somebody lies to you or tries to trick you
And you're smart about it. You keep quiet, you let them keep thinking whatever it is, they're thinking, because whatever that is, it's not right? And you know that and just let them keep thinking, but anyway, put your hand up by your chest so you're looking at the Palm of your hand. If\nIt's you're right. Hand your thumb will be up in the air kind of and just looking at the center of your palm , and your lines will make a m

[ohsheeT]

https://quickshare.samsungcloud.com/ysMD3HPGbW5E

[bobalife]

Wait this is so crazy… this is literally me!!! 😂😂😂 how do you know? Are you a fortune teller?🤔🤔🤔

[ohsheeT]

Lol no im not. I am just like you I feel and read energy I see it to but not with you because I can't see you

[shortster]

You are definitely attractive; and the outfit in your profile picture is definitely going to draw attention. But the last person you want to get involved with romantically is your boss.

[bobalife]

Oh why thank you :) but no no no not at all! Lmao. I wasn’t even trying to do anything with him esp knowing he’s married. Maybe things would be different if he was single though. He’s also a manager of another department.

[bobalife]

I also don’t dress like my profile pic, which is more for going out. At work, I keep it very professional and modest on my attires.

[shortster]

You're welcome

[DishLady]

Attracted and "into you" aren't the same thing. If you're a good looking girl you'll see guys are attracted. It's not a big deal.

[bobalife]

Thank you, I know the definition between the two.

[DishLady]

It wasn't so much to explain it to you... but you seem surprised that he'd be attracted to you. You're probably just an attractive girl, no?

[bobalife]

Everyone sees beauty in their own perspective and we’re not everyone’s cup of tea. Even if I think of myself as an attractive person.. I can’t assume, be vain, nor arrogant that automatically means someone will be attracted/interested in me. I was simply curious :) It’s also an odd situation, don’t you think? Anyone can naturally be taken back a little in my position who thinks like me when this is someone of a leadership role at your workplace lol.

[WhitneySnow]

He might he into you but he’s married. Stay away. It will only lead to drama and heartbreak for you, and maybe him too.

[Still-alive]

Hmm yeah ill go with the others and say yes it sounds like there’s interest there at the very least.

[bobalife]

😲😮

[Still-alive]

lol. maybe talk with him more to find out? :P

[bobalife]

Oh no, he’s married. I was just curious because of the odd behaviors haha. I’m also too busy :)

[Still-alive]

oh yeah uhh no married guys. don't wanna mess with that lol

[Bklynbadboy12]

He's definitely flirting with you but how do you feel about that? 🤣🤣🤣

[bobalife]

Oh, what makes you say so?

[Bklynbadboy12]

You can tell im shocked you can't most women can tell when a guy wants them I think you know but your being modest

[bobalife]

Hahaha maybe :)

[Bklynbadboy12]

I just messaged you

[spartan55]

This is a whole lotta nothing tbh.

[NathanDavis]

Yes.

[bobalife]

Yes to which one?

[NathanDavis]

that's a lot of overthinking... lol

[bobalife]

😂😭

[NathanDavis]

sometimes, people are just nice people...

and about looks... I always notice when someone looks at me or looks my way, and then I meet them with my eyes, this is a very natural thing to do... lmfao

[Anonymous]

Yes I think so

[In_Trance]

Overthinking

[wkhan_87]

Seems he like you