Does men get flowers, choklad or other kinds of presents or surprises on Valentine's day too?

[Anonymous]

Why?
Why not?
What kind?

[Purpleronnie]

I’ve never been bothered about getting gifts on valentines as I don’t believe that I should be treated any differently on valentines as opposed to any other.


BUT ! If you can’t at least wish him happy valentine when the world reminds you in a way he appreciates then … good luck 👍 😂


Nor should you expect to get when you have given !

[Anonymous]

Men gets flowers mostly only one time in there whole life at there own funerals.
I don't have any statistics. That's what I have heard.
In my life of 26 years I only saw 2 of my friends getting flowers.
I never got any flowers but I think I will get when I am dead.
(They both were attractive so I think those are outliers)

[Asker]

That's sad

Men deserves flowers too or other presents.

[Opinion Owner]

Life is like that.
Someone like me gets only rejections lol.

[NessaEssa]

I used to make my husband a small basket with a six pack of beer, chocolate, chips and a little note. They were things that he liked. I stopped doing it because it was always me just giving. He would always forget. I guess I got it from my parents because mom and dad would always give each other things on special occasions.

[Asker]

Your parents sounds like great role models. And your husband needs to step up. I hope he at least shows love other days. If never, then sit down and have a talk with him and hopefully he will change.

[NessaEssa]

Thanks

[DishLady]

I sent a guy friend flowers one year bc he was going through a bad breakup.

I'd always get parents and grandparents flowers and gifts from us too. We're just cheesy, I guess.

[Asker]

That's is very sweet

[DishLady]

Thanks. Haven't given anyone flowers since then, though. Doesn't feel the same.

[Billlewis]

If I happen to be serving his girlfriend as an online pay pig, there's no way he's not going to be properly spoiled, unless one of them prefers that I refrain from doing so. I love it when she gives me the lucky guy's shoe size and his preferred pair of shoes, so I can demonstrate my subservient position to him, thereby placing him on the lofty pedestal of absolute superiority and greater degree of social status, sexual privileges and public groveling to their ownership of their frystrated, dedicated male pig.

[strateguy632]

A, no i never got gifts nor sweets. B if you want to give to him, then choose the thing that shows that you know that he likes it. For example a six pack of the beer you know he likes. Etc.

[Asker]

I see, thanks for advice

[BadApple69]

I’ve never got anything but am expected to get her something.

[Asker]

Could you throw som hint that you too wish to get something?

[BadApple69]

A box of chocolates. Men like chocolates. Here is the best gift…. Make a coupon book for your man. Have coupons for things like a massage. A coupon that says “when presented I will make your favorite dinner”. You can make it playful or sexual…. It’s up to you and your man. But it shows you put some thought into what he might like and it shows love.

[Asker]

Sounds so thoughtful. Thanks for the idea

[queenofcardio]

They can yeah. I'm sure they'll be grateful for anything

[Asker]

What is suitable to give?

[exitseven]

my wife got me a nice book to read. it was very thoughtful.

[Asker]

That's sweet!

[Zionne]

my partner got me a slippers. it was so comfy

[Asker]

Cute

[msc545]

No. What men mostly get on Valentine's Day is a lack of gratitude and a hard time.

[Asker]

Outch!

[msc545]

Sorry, but that's really the truth.

[Asker]

Valentine's day should be about love and not just women.

There is already mother's day, sister's day, women's day...

[Nikki1989]

I would hope not but maybe it happens.

[jshm2]

Yes we do. But we don't tend to ask for it.

[Farmores]

I have never been given anything for valentines day ever. None of the men i know have been given anything either. Its always the women who are given things men are expected to pay for those things.

[YourExLover69]

Never got such things as flowers, chocolate etc. on valentine day 😒

[Anonymous]

Gifts like flowers and chocolates are just money wasted on men.

[NicholasofAustralia]

Exactly men are such pigs 🐖🐷 on the plus side, I'll be merrily enjoying my own bought chocolate line the single piggy I'm , year on year 🍫🍫🍫 stuffing my face full delightfully mmmmm

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You did not seriously spell chocolate as “choklad”

[Asker]

I accidently spelled it as we do in the country I live in😅

[DryGermanGuy]

Hygge!!! :-D

[Asker]

Hygge?
Not Germany, I live in Sweden

[DryGermanGuy]

I know. I thought "hygge" was a term in all of Scandinavia?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hygge

[Asker]

Well, "hygge" is a Danish word. Not Swedish.

[Asker]

In Swedish we call it "Mys " instead

[DryGermanGuy]

🙂👍

[Anonymous]

Chocolate***

Its not something I personally enjoy, but I'm not all men.

[Anonymous]

HELL NO! Lucky if I get sex... or just a blow job or hand job!!!

[Anonymous]

Yes. Definitely.

[msc545]

Men typically get nothing of any value, sentimental or otherwise.

[Asker]

Outch

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t mind this guy. He’s very anti-feminist.

[captain_voidwalker]

The only thing men get on valentines day is broke

[Asker]

Outch

[MikeTheBartender]

Maybe gay couples?

[Anonymous]

No guys usually don't get anything

[Asker]

Is it a rule or just society made it that way?

[Opinion Owner]

Both

[Asker]

Ahh i see

[beefcakebradybatson]

B. J. s !!!

[Asker]

What does it mean?

[Asker]

Is it what i think it is or am i to dirty minded?

[rapfan107]

I used to