What’s the Best Way to DM a Girl on Instagram If You Don’t Know Her?

[Anonymous]

If a guy wants to start a conversation with you on Instagram and you’ve never met in real life, what’s the best way for him to do it? What are examples of good first messages—and what should he avoid?

This person I would like to reach out too, our families know one another however we never met. Also she reside back home so seeing her would be most likely when I return back home. The purpose of this to get to know people for a long term/ marriage etc.

[SueShe]

First things first, I would suggest you contact G@G and ask them to change your gender since you obviously made a "mistake" when signing up. You can use this form

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/contact

and tell them that you checked again and realized you did make a mistake.

Now, the real question here is what is your ultimate motive to want to slide into a girl's DM? I have my little idea about it but I would like to hear it from you.

The best way is simply to tell her what your intentions are and what you are expecting from her. However, this may very well the last you hear from her though before she blocks you.

[Danny_dan92]

Why is an anon girl account asking a question on how a guy should message a girl? Here’s how you message a girl bro.




Grow some balls

[Mike_Hum]

You forgot to use your fake guy account for this question.

[Anonymous]

You should reach out. I've only tried something like that once, and it went horribly.

[In_Trance]

Don't bother. This is no way to meet someone