What would be some reasons a guy would blocked you after finding out your big age gap despite good connection?

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Let’s say he’s younger and you’re older. A decade age a part.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I would say he doesn't know who he is he doesn't understand time he doesn't understand that you live in the moment. There is no tomorrow , so don't take your head there because it's not here yet he doesn't understand energy or that connection that you said you have. Because he felt it too, and. He's probably afraid that he did not please you when he felt that connection, when you felt that connection, that was both of your energy is your heart's coming together and there was a reason for that.
And he should've jumped for the moment to experience that   Because the understanding the knowledge, the wisdom that he could have gained is priceless.  It's so much deeper than a moment in time that decade. It means nothing, it's just a Secondhand a blink of an eye kicking away. If
 He doesn't follow through somewhere down the road. He will kick himself in the butt. For not experiencing it, you passion, love energy. It was there for the both of you to learn something.
 And it's kind of sad. He doesn't get to learn and you don't either.
 But you never can tell what will happen. You will get that experience again somewhere. Somehow that knowledge, you'll get a second chance. So will he

RavVid · Accepted Answer

There some obvious ones. If the guy is in his 20's and the woman is in the 30's then there is pressure to produce babies before he is ready. That sets him back a long way because all spare money usually goes to children.

He may not ever get to the point of owning a house because children stop him from getting the money together. In 25 years, the 25 yo will be 50 and won't be able to get a 25 yr mortgage. If he does get to pay off a house, he probably won't have a retirement fund

A more trivial aspect is aging happens in steps. A 35 yo woman will start looking a lot older whilst he still looks youthful. It just looks odd is all.

jazzy34 · Accepted Answer

He decided he doesn't want to be with a woman that much older than him. Don't sweat it.

Abbycado · Accepted Answer

Because he doesn't want to be with someone that far apart in age.

DuSith · Answer

Been there, done that. Not a problem.

There was a site, "Return of the Kings," that poked at this. Around 30, she's looking to settle down, having spend her youth hooking up with anyone who moved. He, however, is still young. Why be tied down?

Well, yes, but she's also less likely to cheat, has experience, and all that. Most of the women I dated, when young, were a decade older. From my teens until my 20s, older women tended to focus on me. After that, girls started to notice me. Yet, those my own age never did. The crappy part was, most were no-gos. Either too young or older and married.

Right now, there seems to be a "rule" where there shouldn't do more than a few years between two people. When this is crossed, people start to get hostile. In my case, there is a massive age difference, with me being older, so...

My guess is, you dodged the bullet. He could have done this after you spent time on him.

MontBlanc · Answer

Some guys might block someone after discovering a big age gap, even with a good connection, because of personal values, societal pressure, or long term concerns.

They may worry about life stage differences, future goals, or how friends and family would perceive the relationship.

It’s less about the connection itself and more about their boundaries, comfort, and vision for the future.

BigD210 · Answer

Pretty simple, not good for the younger party. you want to be together relatively for life. Ideally, if you’re young, you’d like to be able to have a family so you know if there’s a big age gap that hurts family dynamics and might leave someone a widow in a young age with kids to raise. imagine also how it might look 30 years from now one party is 50. The other party is 80 or something. I don’t know you gotta consider those things though. it usually I think works against the younger person.

Anonymous · Answer

If he felt a strong bond before knowing your age, the revelation might have caused an internal conflict. Blocking is sometimes used to create immediate space to cool off or process confusing emotions

TediumIsTheWorstPain · Answer

Maybe he got spooked about the age gap. Maybe he went back to his ex. Maybe he discovered that he's gay. Could be a lot of things. How old are you? How old is he? Did you meet on an app, or what?

Cyfris · Answer

I've dated a person 14 years older and 14 years younger then I am.. I block people I feel incompatable with.

bowenw · Answer

Only he knows for sure, but he could have been pressured by family, or is worried about how thing may go in the future. Please feel free to DM if you wish.

Iron_Man · Answer

As long as you’re over 18, I don’t see why he would block you. Then shame on him Because you’re older than him

Anonymous · Answer

Consider any man under 30 a child because most have that mentality.

Twalli · Answer

Actually that's my cut off. I won't date anyone who was born after 2001.

MrChinaski · Answer

Errr... you answered your own question.

In_Trance · Answer

Probably the age Gap

DextroShade · Answer

The man should always be older.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

Gross

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