Is my married coworker crossing the line and about to cheat?

[Anonymous]

I went out to dinner with my male co-worker last week, alone, and today we made plans to go out for dinner again next week, alone. He is not single and had to schedule at a time that he wouldn't have to pick her up at her work (I am assuming this is being kept secret). The last dinner, at the end, he gave me a full body contact tight hug. He has given me compliments that I am funny and smell good and I have noticed small things like drawing smiley faces, long stares and I have sensed him checking me out. Is this leading down a path of him potentially cheating on his wife? Thoughts?

[HollyK21]

You pose this question as if you’re asking about two separate people and not yourself. You are the other woman in this situation, so is the door open for him to potentially cheat? Do you feel as though that’s what he’s trying to do? And if so are you ok being a side piece?

[HollyK21]

Interesting how when you posted about this the other day, you made no mention of him being married, just what he was doing. To me it sounds like you’re being messy.

[Anonymous]

If he is a man, he is thinking about cheating.

[spartan55]

Nice

[spartan55]

Thoughts? You are gross for starters, going to dinner with a married man. Tf is wrong with you? You are a clap havin Jezebel.

[Cyfris]

yes... Stop going out with people you work with. bad juju

[spartan55]

How about married people too.

[Alex-Snow]

He is pushing the window. You think he is keeping it secret from his girlfriend or wife... that is a red flag. Do you want to have an affair with him?

[slatyb]

This is dangerous to you and to his marriage.

[jahaims]

You are a trash homewrecker

[Mike_Hum]

Why are you fucking around with him?

[dudeinohio]

Yes it is and you are enabling him.

[LC75LC71]

I dunno.. You tell me homewrecker.