You should talk to your friend first and tell him the things she told you, how she is betraying her mom , and feels stressed. He should be the one taking care of his daughter so he should be the one telling everything to his wife. It would be like betraying your friend if you talk to the wife and mess your friendship but you also have to do the right thing. Talk to him and if he doesn't want to come clean , you do the deed
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If your friend really cares for his daughter you should urge him into coming clean and getting a divorce. Make him realize the awkward situation he's putting you in.
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I think the best thing is to send the daughter to therapy/ counseling, while simultaneously entering into marriage counseling. The counseling should decide whether the couple can/ should stay together, and until then the husband should stay away from this other girl. If things cannot be worked out, then they should proceed with a divorce.
I've been a cheater- I know it's a dirt-bag move, but there are reasons guys/ girls look elsewhere for an escape. BUT it's quite another thing to burden your child with the knowledge of this, while expecting them to keep it a secret- that's borderline child abuse.
There's a price to be paid with having things convenient. Used to be... a man had to go to the store to buy himself a pitcher of milk. Hyeah, but men got lazy. They wanted that milk delivered right to the door. Only problem was, the guy deliverin' that milk end sup fuckin' your wife. Sure, you had your nice cold milk delivered right to your doorstep, but your wife was gettin' pounded out like a mallard duck. And now you got your Amazon. And the milkman's come back. And none of ya are safe.
It might be worth explaining to the oldest daughter that parents divorce all the time. Sometimes, it's for the better. Explain that her mother is a worthless pos and it's no surprise dad found happiness elsewhere.
I would stay out of it as it is their personal Business. MYOB is the acronym, I believe.
Guess that's your choice to be honest I personally wouldn't involve myself
I would say yes. Save her the heart ache.. But get proof first because he can deny it.
thats a hard one but I say yes.
Yes. She has to know the truth.
Therapy therapy
why do you need to get involved?
i would stay out of it
Yup.
100% yes.
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