Is it normal for a new guy to talk about training me and setting rules?

[Anonymous]

am i overthinking it

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Normal as in common? Depends where you live, I suppose it could be common in Afghanistan.

Normal as in fair? Depends who you ask, I suppose it will look fair to him, if he is hyperChristian, hyperMuslim, or hyperBDSM. Please note that these 3 traits can be combined to create the hyperCringe man (almost) no one dreams of.

[bowenw]

It is normal if you want to be subordinate and he wants to dominate you, otherwise no. Please feel free to DM if you wish.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[CriminallyInsane]

Unless you said something to him about wanting a relationship like that, then definitely not even a tiny bit normal

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Unless you specified you wanted a sub/dom relationship, no.

[Asker]

what does it mean?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

BDSM

[queenofcardio]

Training you in what way?

Context matters.

[Asker]

my behaviour. so that i submit to him

[queenofcardio]

Strange and not normal.

[Alex-Snow]

That is weird. Why would a guy even say that you need "training" Red Flag!

[Asker]

because i dont agree with him

[Alex-Snow]

Good for you. One does not always have to agree on everything in a relationship

[AngryCarl3]

Maybe if he's your manager. Otherwise you can safely ignore him.

[Abbycado]

For what? Work?

[Asker]

relationship

[Abbycado]

That’s ridiculous. If you need to be trained to be in a relationship, you shouldn’t be in one.

[spartan55]

Normal for you probably.

[Tamera952]

Simply put, …. umm, no.

[jahaims]

He just found a dummy to use

[Anonymous]

Training you in what? Some kind of sport?

[Mado108]

Red flags 🚩! Run!