I was training this new guy this coworker I know kept glancing and looking my way a lot?

[Anonymous]

I’ve caught his gaze plenty of times especially while I was talking to this new guy he was just standing there glancing at me I doubt he likes me since his unavailable now I feel very insecure and odd I don't know what’s his problem am I overthinking

[WhitneySnow]

He could like you or it could be just a coincidence

[Asker]

No hun he was literally staring at me I felt his eyes

[Asker]

I don’t understand why

[Asker]

And he is taken so that’s not y

[WhitneySnow]

Sometimes people stare off into space and don’t even notice that you’re standing right there. Or he might like you. Taken guys fall for other girls all the time. Or he could just be a player. No way to tell just from a look.

[Asker]

No no no it was like as if he was watching my every move

[Asker]

I don’t understand why his happily married

[WhitneySnow]

You might be right. Maybe he’s very unhappily married. Or happily married but still cheats. Or you might be imagining this whole staring thing (a guy was once convinced I liked him when in fact I was staring off into space and had no clue he was even there).

[Asker]

True true but no like I caught him staring at me for a sec bc he turned my way for like 5 sec waiting for my expression and than earlier I was speaking to that new guy in my language he kept glancing up from his computer screen to see my reaction

[Asker]

I’m a people watcher

[WhitneySnow]

Interesting. See if he hits on you. That’ll confirm your theory.

Do you like him?

[Asker]

No just as a person coworker

[WhitneySnow]

Just ignore him unless he hits on you

[Asker]

Hitting in innocent way is what for example

[WhitneySnow]

No. Like if he comes over to you and starts talking to you. Staring at you doesn’t really mean anything.

[Asker]

Yea he will talk to me occasionally sometimes more others less but we will have conversations

[WhitneySnow]

Does he ask you out? Make sexual comments? Flirt with you?

[Asker]

Pshhh no but he will throw out Spanish words in between knowing I don’t speak it

[WhitneySnow]

I have a feeling you like this guy. Word of advice: don’t. Happily married or unhappily married, it still means heartbreak for you.

[Asker]

I don’t I just don’t understand his behavior

[Asker]

What’s the best thing to do to avoid him completely

[WhitneySnow]

Not hard to understand. He wants to fuck you. Or maybe it’s a more innocent crush. Either way it means trouble.

Plenty of taken guys are interested in other women.

[WhitneySnow]

Yes.

[Asker]

Yea I think you’re overthinking he is just weirdo

[WhitneySnow]

Trust me. I’m not overthinking. Best to avoid him.

[Asker]

What’s the best possible way to completely make him invisible

[Asker]

The thing is he will freely admit and tell people he is married and has two kids so he doesn’t hide his marriage that’s why I don’t think it’s that

[WhitneySnow]

Just be polite but do not engage with him. Do not pay attention to him or speak to him unless he speaks to you. If he does speak to you, tell him you’re busy and you can’t talk.

[WhitneySnow]

Plenty of married guys don’t hide that they’re married. They just think they’re charming enough to seduce you anyway even if you do know.

[Asker]

Prob his way of being friendly

[WhitneySnow]

Yes, but guys usually aren’t friendly to one girl in particular unless they have romantic or sexual intentions (usually sexual).

[Asker]

He is pretty friendly to
This other woman well he translates for her but he talks to
Her a lot

[WhitneySnow]

He’s probably hitting on both of you

Gtg. Night!

[Asker]

Night?

[WhitneySnow]

It’s night here

[Anonymous]

all right.

[zombiewoof]

He is jealous

[Asker]

Pshhhhh no I promise

[Asker]

It was deep intense look or if I spoke in our language he kept glancing like
Bro