Is my ex being too eager by obsessing over seeing me in lingerie?

[Anonymous]

My ex birthday is this week
Last week he asked me if he could see me in this lingerie dress again, I showed it to him for a little while the first time and then changed back to my regular clothes.
All last week and this week he's been asking me on repeat if im going to come and if im wearing the dress. We don't sleep together anymore so...

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

• "my ex asked me if he could see me in this lingerie dress again, I showed it to him"

Welllllllllllll

I hope that now you understood the last thing you and an ex need is to entertain past intimacy together lol

[MrChinaski]

You see. This is what I meant when I said I meet people on this site weirder than I am and that it centres me.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

shut up lolol

[MrChinaski]

Pull it together. Are you with him? Are you broken up?

Stop wasting your life in limbo. Set a goal. Pursue that goal. Achieve that goal.

You are 25+ years old and still behaving like a 13 years old.

[Calyptomaniac]

"too eager" would be if his efforts were futile, but clearly something he's doing is working, so since you're giving him exactly what he's asking for, it's no surprise he's doing to keep asking

[queenofcardio]

All of this could've been avoided if you didn't give in. Block if you don't want the attention

[sexy_bis]

Why would he want to see you in lingerie if you don’t sleep together? And why would you show him? Personally, I wound not show my lingerie pics to my ex.

[StephanieChick111]

Huh? He's your ex and you don't have sex anymore but you dress up in lingerie for him?

[sexy_bis]

Good point. I am a little confused as well. @StephanieChick111

[StephanieChick111]

@sexy_bis why are you two ex's?

[sexy_bis]

@StephanieChick111 I’m sorry, what?

[StephanieChick111]

@sexy_bis why did you break up?

[sexy_bis]

@StephanieChick111 DM me.

[exitseven]

I do not know, I have never seen you in lingerie. Maybe put up pix the next time.

[AngryCarl3]

That sounds like a him problem. If he's really your ex I mean.

[bowenw]

Why is your ex still in contact with you?

[Jen_oic]

I don’t always wear lingerie either

[Sammy098]

When did you both break up?