Why is a securely attached man seen as a high value man?

[scott04sa22]

Why do people view secure man as high value man?

If a *normal* secure attachment style man has high values does this means that men with *earned* secure attachment styles have much more higher values over there deep emotional intelligence, deep emotional resilience and shows deep empathy?

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A number of reasons. He has demonstrated an ability to commit. What's lost is in order for the woman desiring him to be successful, he must break that commitment. Women tend to desire a man other women want. To some, it's an ego boost to "take" someone else's man.

[beenherebefore]

A securely attached Man will give you a peaceful and stable relationship instead of constant anxiety and doubts.

[scott04sa22]

Yes and Earned‑secure people brings peace plus awareness...

[usernameobvious]

Much like a secure attached woman being sane, calm and simple 🙃 a less stress relationship

[scott04sa22]

And Secure people are more authentic then using scripts from tiktok and instagram's reels. Secure people also have better "bullshit detectors" too 📡

[beenherebefore]

@scott04sa22 100% right.

[scott04sa22]

@beenherebefore downloading "personalities" or "scripts" online are instantly red flags.