Men without kids, do you regret not becoming a father?

[Anonymous]

Yes

Unsure

No

[FindingCommonSense]

No matter how obsessed I was with avoiding trauma, I ultimately would have traumatized someone if I had children --- it. Is. Impossible. Not. To. Pass. One. Traumas. Without. Fixing. Yourself. First.

Zero things in the world can blockade it. Infinite amount of good intentions and discipline will not help you. Even upon adoption your DNA will pass it on.

I am glad as hell I ignored all the people pushing me toward impregnating one woman or another.

Right now my body is automatically doing all these things I watched as a teenager shamans and yogis doing. They did it as techniques, my body is reflexively doing it purging fucked up trash beaten into me since birth.

[docster]

Not in the least. My plate is full handling life's problems. I don't need any more.

[Sunrising]

I have never been in an ideal situation to have children, so I don't regret not having children.

There is too much sadness in the world without me adding to it.

[Iron_Man]

Yes. 🤕

[Asker]

never too late, thanks for your input

[Iron_Man]

Thanks